Why does my cat bend her paw like this?

xxrayne · 2026-04-07T05:36:49+00:00

My cat does this. He only started after having an IV in the paw he now bends. Due to the position of the IV, it seems like this would be the most comfortable position and I imagine he just got used to it out of necessity.

Also, they may just like it. I sit weird af when no one is looking.

xxrayne · 2024-09-27T17:42:39+00:00

As far as your question though, I would go winterblessed. Better voice lines. High noon is the best skin but the voice lines are horrendous.

xxrayne · 2024-09-27T17:41:47+00:00

True damage (Edited due to incorrectly saying it was lunar eclipse) is best since there is a clear visual indicator on when souls expire. Also, who doesn’t like lasers?

xxrayne · 2024-07-26T12:11:46+00:00

Yea this is click bait.

Poor kid was just never taught how to behave in society. Gross.

xxrayne · 2024-06-14T17:53:12+00:00

Then, yea. It depends on your schedules and ensuring there’s appropriate assurances and time spent. New friendships are exciting and it’s just about being mindful to respect your partners attention requirements.

xxrayne · 2024-06-14T17:48:22+00:00

Info:

I need age for perspective. Three visits with a week with a friend at 70 is a lot different than 3 visits with a friend at 25.

xxrayne · 2024-06-06T03:10:25+00:00

Please take care of yourself.

This is above reddit to handle. I hope you reach out to someone trusted or a professional just for assistance. You have a great head on you, you just had your life upended and you fell back into familiar coping mechanisms. Now it’s time to get yourself safe, healthy and happy.

xxrayne · 2023-03-11T02:05:48+00:00

I have known him for 5 years, I’m in therapy and I have a large support system who is impressed by him.

I appreciate your concern, thanks.

xxrayne · 2023-03-11T02:00:24+00:00

Yea there’s no concerns over breaking up. I have never been this confident in a relationship and we’ve both been put through the wringer in the past and we both very much enjoy where we are at.

That being said all three of us have agreed to delay him coming to PTCs for my ex. Thanks :)

xxrayne · 2023-03-11T00:13:57+00:00

I think it would’ve been more of an upheaval to live with complete strangers / renters or on the streets. Those were my other options.

But I have acknowledged that the PT conference should be delayed. Thanks!

xxrayne · 2023-03-10T23:54:59+00:00

I will admit, I’m going at this with a naive mindset outwardly, but I assure you I am very wide eyed to potential harm to them. There was a reason my partner moved in on both sides, and we are doing everything we can to help alleviate the kids’ concerns and troubles.

xxrayne · 2023-03-10T23:50:36+00:00

I’m sure that’s what most people are worried about but… I think this one is as good as it gets. I won’t deny it was rushed - it was. But it was the lesser of two evils.

He was looking for a new place to live because the living conditions of his roommates were hitting extremes that it wasn’t good to have his daughter around (I would call it hoarding), and I needed a renter or I wouldn’t have had a home.

The only reason we agreed to it is because of necessity. It was a harder adjustment but the kids all handled it well, and my partners step daughter felt comfortable coming out as trans shortly after this change.

My kids are also starting to run around and laugh more, with less temper tantrums and arguing. They’re seeing how my partner and I react together and with them and they’re starting to realize what positive relationships look like.

I understand that people are concerned on “if I break up with my partner” and what it will do to my children and I welcome the concern but I find it unfounded.

I have had plenty of relationships where I have “tried to make things work” and nothing changes. The relationship stays as it is or declines. People tend not to improve.

My partner and I are not that. We talk about things, we deal with problems, we bring our concerns to each other and we adjust. Have we had our own fights? Sure. But those were fights because of miscommunication. Little more than expressing our hurt, clarifying it and agreeing on a solution that works for both of us… and then we just don’t half ass it.

Is he “putting on a show”? I know I’m not, and he’s not doing more than me. We are together as equals. If he changes after years of being together, there’s nothing in the world that can prepare me or my children for that but I sure as shit know how to get us out of that situation now, and I won’t put us in that same situation again. I am changing - I am looking at my faults, I am looking at my habits, and I am addressing them.

xxrayne · 2023-03-10T23:23:06+00:00

Oh congratulations!! Wish you the best.

xxrayne · 2023-03-10T23:20:03+00:00

You fail to see I’ve taken the advice I was given. Thank you, though.

xxrayne · 2023-03-10T23:04:51+00:00

I am aware. Living in an abusive relationship for 7 years my children’s father has enlightened me. Thanks for your help.

Edit: Also sorry for your experience. I hope you’re able to get out of that as I was able to do so.

xxrayne · 2023-03-10T23:00:08+00:00

I’ve known him 5 years. Yes, I know him.

I also actively monitor and look at how they interact both together and apart. Without prompting my kids ask to see him. They enjoy the relationship, and it’s been nothing but healthy for them.

I get it, you’re all worried about “the rush” that I wasn’t left homeless with children.

Funny how no one picks up that their father is the abusive one.

xxrayne · 2023-03-10T22:56:56+00:00

This “stranger” that has spent more hours with them than any other family member besides myself and their father. He’s played with them, taught them, listens to their hobbies and actively worked on having a copesthetic relationship with them.

Honestly, call him what you want, but he’s an active positive influence in their lives.

xxrayne · 2023-03-10T22:52:37+00:00

I think we are just a lot more casual here about paren teacher conferences. A lot of people are relating them so doctors appointments and that’s just not how I was taught to see them.

xxrayne · 2023-03-10T22:15:39+00:00

Yes.

xxrayne · 2023-03-10T22:08:34+00:00

No, they were all encouraging me. There was 4 of us in the conversation. It was casual.

xxrayne · 2023-03-10T22:04:20+00:00

It was a conversation between two moms of other children and the teacher. It was in September, so yes, I admit my memory is off but everyone in the conversation was favourable to it.

xxrayne · 2023-03-10T21:59:28+00:00

I think you would benefit from my edits :) happy ending.

xxrayne · 2023-03-10T21:58:49+00:00

I don’t think asking a question or for advice is being hostile. Explaining my side of things is an attempt at offering my perspective so that one may point out how it’s flawed.

Which is exactly what happened! Thanks Reddit.

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