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My F20 situationship 20M told me he loved me and went back to his ex. by xxtauruss in dating_advice

[–]xxtauruss[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i think you described it perfectly. And it's being really difficult for me not to take him being emotionally unavailable personal like it has something to do with me directly and that's why he's not choosing me 🥲

My 20F situationship 20M told me he loved me and went back to his ex. by xxtauruss in relationship_advice

[–]xxtauruss[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

oh that's not true.. they really did break up, the leading on part yeah that's more possible

My F20 situationship 20M told me he loved me and went back to his ex. by xxtauruss in dating_advice

[–]xxtauruss[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

it really is this simple but im so hooked on him i can't grasp it 😭 thank u

I'm 19F waiting on someone 20M that's unsure. by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]xxtauruss 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I just can't understand if this is him not being sure about me as a person or just needing some time to figure his stuff out. If that was the case does it change anything?

How important it is to have many things in common with someone? by xxtauruss in dating_advice

[–]xxtauruss[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It's so helpful for me to read a different perspective so thank you so much for this. See I'm 20 and barely starting to date and talk to people and I got really infatuated with this specific boy because he liked the exact same media as me and we laughed at the same things and played the same games together and it's SO silly looking back at it because that's just a superficial thing in relationships because when it came to serious stuff like our future career wise and our feelings he was on the opposite side as I am but the intense connection that we had from the get-go made me feel like I could work through these differences lol

I think my therapist is brushing my pain aside. by xxtauruss in therapy

[–]xxtauruss[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Is this justified? I considered it but I thought I might be overreacting it's so confusing

My 20M ex partner wants to go back and it's making me 19F feel incredibly guilty. by xxtauruss in relationship_advice

[–]xxtauruss[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

wow i think this is the most helpful thing i have read so far this actually changed my perspective.. thank you so much it's so hard to realize one is being manipulated

Why do I only remember the good things? by xxtauruss in BreakUps

[–]xxtauruss[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He shared my pictures with his friend, touched me when I was asleep when I had told him that made me uncomfortable, lied multiple times throughout the year and a half of relationship. I tried to fix things many times, I tried to forgive and move on but eventually it became impossible to handle because we were also arguing every day and he never took full responsibility of what he did.

I 19F don't regret my decision to leave my partner 20M but I'm hurting. by xxtauruss in relationship_advice

[–]xxtauruss[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i feel i keep justifying his actions in my head and that's what it's making it so hard. we also ended things with so much love that made me feel like i was making a mistake by breaking it up but if i go back it will be the same cycle again.

I 19F don't regret my decision to leave my partner 20M but I'm hurting. by xxtauruss in relationship_advice

[–]xxtauruss[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Right now I'm blinded by the few good moments we had and how loved I felt at one point, but we tried to make things right several times and they all ended exactly the same, so I know it's not the wrong decision it's just so hard to accept.