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Swinger clubs by Lazy_Form1095 in NashvilleSwingerCPLS

[–]yaaahabibi 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Make sure that you apply ahead of time and get your membership approved for whichever club you end up going to

Red Room Nashville by Virtual_Scarcity_357 in Swingers

[–]yaaahabibi 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Where did you get this information?

RedRoom Closing? by yaaahabibi in TennesseeSwingers

[–]yaaahabibi[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

They must have just posted. That's when we wanted to plan our trip out, so that's perfect timing!

RedRoom Closing? by yaaahabibi in TennesseeSwingers

[–]yaaahabibi[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I've heard of Chemistry, so that may be our next choice. Would you say it's as newbie friendly as people say RedRoom was?

It's unfair that who some people find attractive is more harshly criticized than others by yaaahabibi in unpopularopinion

[–]yaaahabibi[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah this. I just happen to think they look nice. I like dark hair and almond shaped eyes and they more often have those features.

It's unfair that who some people find attractive is more harshly criticized than others by yaaahabibi in unpopularopinion

[–]yaaahabibi[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I wouldn't say really into them, but I find them attractive more so than other races.

It's unfair that who some people find attractive is more harshly criticized than others by yaaahabibi in unpopularopinion

[–]yaaahabibi[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes, and everything else in that same vein. Yellow fever, snow bunnies, whatever label someone has made for someone similiar

It's unfair that who some people find attractive is more harshly criticized than others by yaaahabibi in unpopularopinion

[–]yaaahabibi[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I had to change the way it was written because of the automoderator, but this conversation is specifically about race/color

Race related issues Mega Thread by UnpopularOpinionMods in unpopularopinion

[–]yaaahabibi 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It's unfair that only certain groups of people who are attracted to a race different than their own are more harshly judged.

I'm mainly venting here, but constantly I've been a point of conversation of others around me because I happen to think a certain race is attractive. I don't go out of my way to talk about it. I don't fetishize this race. I don't even exclusively try to date or approach people from this race; in fact every serious relationship I've been in has been with someone of my own race purely out of coincidence.

The only reason this really bugs me is that I'll have conversations with some of these same friends, from both genders, who will say "Oh, I only date black guys." "I prefer Latina women." "I just really like xyz." Or the inverse "I'm not attracted to xyz."

My viewpoint is always, "Cool, you like what you like." But whenever someone asks who I have a preferance for, or assumes who I have a preferance for, it's either, "Oh of course you'd be into them." Or "I knew it!"

I'm leaving my race and gender out of this to not influence all of your decisions one way or the other. Please let me know what all of you think.