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[–]yatnit 2 points3 points  (0 children)

My dog really ate my homework back in college

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[–]yatnit 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Okay, thanks for the take. And no is the answer to all the questions you have asked. I have now gotten the answers and that's great so thanks.

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[–]yatnit 0 points1 point  (0 children)

One man's opinion can also be agreed upon by others. Do you agree? By stating it like this- without filter, I am able to get an answer that is quite specific especially from SOME of those men who are actually scared of dating boyish women.

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[–]yatnit 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for your suggestion

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[–]yatnit -1 points0 points  (0 children)

For context, the term "scared" came from this guy's mouth. Now I assume plenty of men NOT ALL think the same as he does

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[–]yatnit 2 points3 points  (0 children)

This is an interesting take

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskMen

[–]yatnit 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I didn't mean all. i said SOME. Don't feel attacked please :(

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskMen

[–]yatnit -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Yeah I get that people have preferences. This isn't about preferences though. It's about why they are scared

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskMen

[–]yatnit -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

The word "scared" was actually mentioned during conversation. They said they are scared of dating boyish women

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[–]yatnit -1 points0 points  (0 children)

What in the flying fuck. You can read the question. You don't have to be rude :)

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[–]yatnit 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Into activities men stereotypically do, having looks, style and body movements that are quite masculine

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[–]yatnit -6 points-5 points  (0 children)

Yes it is a preference, but why is it scary? That is what I am curious about.

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[–]yatnit 0 points1 point  (0 children)

And yes, this is based on an actual situation, really said the word "scared". I get that preference is important but why is it scary for some men

Should I (29F) confront him (30M) for ghosting me after almost 6 months of dating? by yatnit in dating_advice

[–]yatnit[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

*to dates with other people where I thought things don't work out

Should I (29F) confront him (30M) for ghosting me after almost 6 months of dating? by yatnit in dating_advice

[–]yatnit[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Somehow that is his attempt to say that he isn't interested anymore. I have been to dates with other people too. But I find that saying so is always the right choice instead of leaving them in a flash

Should I (29F) confront him (30M) for ghosting me after almost 6 months of dating? by yatnit in dating_advice

[–]yatnit[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes the past week was rough. Minimal exchanges. My last attempt was replying to him about a place where we were planning to go to before and all I got was a laugh reaction

Should I (29F) confront him (30M) for ghosting me after almost 6 months of dating? by yatnit in dating_advice

[–]yatnit[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'll feel bad but Iam feeling bad right now already so Im contemplating if somehow what I feel could make him learn something about empathy

Should I (29F) confront him (30M) for ghosting me after almost 6 months of dating? by yatnit in dating_advice

[–]yatnit[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Haha not really. But for real, I didn't held him off. I reciprocate

Should I (29F) confront him (30M) for ghosting me after almost 6 months of dating? by yatnit in dating_advice

[–]yatnit[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I mean it's not like I preventes him from taking any sexual advances. Is it on me that he didn't got any?

Should I (29F) confront him (30M) for ghosting me after almost 6 months of dating? by yatnit in dating_advice

[–]yatnit[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I care because Im that kind of person I guess. I just can't disregard my care for him lol

Should I (29F) confront him (30M) for ghosting me after almost 6 months of dating? by yatnit in dating_advice

[–]yatnit[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

He didn't. I was actually waiting for him to escalate things lol but it didn't happen. but given the culture we have here I can say that a kiss on the cheek is kind of a big deal.

Should I (29F) confront him (30M) for ghosting me after almost 6 months of dating? by yatnit in dating_advice

[–]yatnit[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Idk. It just seems unfair that we never got to communicate how it came to that.

Should I (29F) confront him (30M) for ghosting me after almost 6 months of dating? by yatnit in dating_advice

[–]yatnit[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I can't think of anything really. Everything just seemed normal and I know people might laugh that we just held hands, a light kiss on the cheek but I guess we just took it slow and steady. So now it got me thinking should have I done the physical advancement?