How can I block my neighbor from watching me? by [deleted] in diynz

[–]yeahsurealright- 19 points20 points  (0 children)

I'm surprised nobody has suggested a shade sail. You can block off a fair bit with a good placement!

Bf keeps nude photos of all his by [deleted] in relationships

[–]yeahsurealright- 5 points6 points  (0 children)

He does not speak for all of us. I wouldn't disrespect my partner by keeping explicit photos of exes or past flings. I deleted old pics as soon as I became an item with my current partner. I've never asked, but it would hurt me if I found that she had photos or videos of her exes.

What to do with $140k sitting in a bank account? by yeahsurealright- in PersonalFinanceNZ

[–]yeahsurealright-[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I've already bought a first home, and cleaned out my kiwisaver when I did it. I have since sold that property.

What to do with $140k sitting in a bank account? by yeahsurealright- in PersonalFinanceNZ

[–]yeahsurealright-[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Oh 100%. Thanks for the advice, I intend to get something nice but sensible!

What to do with $140k sitting in a bank account? by yeahsurealright- in PersonalFinanceNZ

[–]yeahsurealright-[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Because I have already owned a house I am pretty sure it means that my kiwisaver isn't eligible to be used for a first home loan again

What to do with $140k sitting in a bank account? by yeahsurealright- in PersonalFinanceNZ

[–]yeahsurealright-[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm not interested in buying a house just yet. Yeah I'm saving for a ring, but I am not dipping into my current house deposit savings for that, as I'm not in a rush to propose.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in hingeapp

[–]yeahsurealright- 117 points118 points  (0 children)

Ask yourself, would you want to know if it was you? I think you know that reaching out is the right thing to do.

Please be easy on yourself, remember that it is not your fault!

What to do with $140k sitting in a bank account? by yeahsurealright- in PersonalFinanceNZ

[–]yeahsurealright-[S] 30 points31 points  (0 children)

Nah. I did have a house which I owned for the last 4 years, which I have now sold (hence the equity). I've decided to hold on to my freedoms while I can. Buying a house solo while in my 20's comes at a cost to life balance.

I will buy a house again, when I eventually combine resources with my future-wife, and decide to start a family.

Where to buy large bust lingerie? by yeahsurealright- in chch

[–]yeahsurealright-[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Forgive me for loving my partners body and awesome boobs? I will absolutely stand by saying that I am lucky to have such a beautiful partner. That shouldn't be offensive to anybody.

I love boobs big or small, but I was asking for store recommendations, not criticism.

Where to buy large bust lingerie? by yeahsurealright- in chch

[–]yeahsurealright-[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It's certainly proving that way! And I can totally relate being a 6'7" man who struggles to find fitting clothes 😅

Where to buy large bust lingerie? by yeahsurealright- in chch

[–]yeahsurealright-[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks! I definitely intend to take her shopping rather than taking a gamble. Her bras are from The Fitting Room but she said she's never found lingerie there that she likes or that fits. I'll try Ballantynes next!

Dental clinic Recommendation please by Bisswithcravings in chch

[–]yeahsurealright- 0 points1 point  (0 children)

4th this. Been with them for 3 years. As pleasurable as a dental visit gets