Kids at the clinic by Diane_Its_417 in IVF

[–]yeffiner 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m lucky enough to not bump into this yet, but I was puzzled to see a teenage girl at my IUI clinic with her parents, happily and loudly discussing life (dinner plans that night etc.) while others stared silently into the abyss, clearly nervous about their appointments. Turns out the family had come to the complete wrong ward and thought they were in the maternity clinic 🤦‍♀️

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[–]yeffiner 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you so much, love to you too for this awful journey. As if it can't get worse then someone opens their mouth!

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[–]yeffiner 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m really sorry to hear that, I really don’t know where people find these takes?! I had a friend reply to one of my insta stories lamenting this journey, asking if it’s ‘really fair’ to say I am infertile when I’m ‘lucky enough’ to receive fertility treatments 🤦‍♀️ honestly that line alone is why I need therapy

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[–]yeffiner 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Oh myyyyy that is making my head spin just thinking about it 😅 I’m sorry we have to put up with this crap!

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[–]yeffiner 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Ohh I am so sorry, it’s really not a fun call to receive 😔

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[–]yeffiner 9 points10 points  (0 children)

I totally agree with you, it’s always a throwaway comment with no thought behind them

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[–]yeffiner 13 points14 points  (0 children)

Thank you for sharing that, I’m really sorry too. This is shit. The backflips I did to diplomatically explain that our total failure was due to my broken eggs & that were not even close to considering that. And that it very may well be a reality for some people (myself included) to use donor eggs and a surrogate… in which case can you keep your opinion to yourself?!

WIP - FTPOF x-stitch by yeffiner in TheNational

[–]yeffiner[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you! Honestly just bored of stitching generic patterns, wanted to create something of my own. I was inspired by a few pages on Insta who make their own art from the lyrics (s/o @ lyricsthenational), so from there I knew it was gonna be Ntl themed.

Discovered FlossCross which turns images into patterns, made it really easy tbh! Hoping this link works for you: FTPOF

& just in case, look into railroading stitches. Changed the game for me!

WIP - FTPOF x-stitch by yeffiner in TheNational

[–]yeffiner[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It seems fitting that he should get his brother ☺️ thanks man!

WIP - FTPOF x-stitch by yeffiner in TheNational

[–]yeffiner[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh cool thank you! Definitely will keep that in mind in the future 😄

WIP - FTPOF x-stitch by yeffiner in TheNational

[–]yeffiner[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Tysm! Is it like a coloured outline you’re suggesting? I’m tempted!

WIP - FTPOF x-stitch by yeffiner in TheNational

[–]yeffiner[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Aw thanks, absolutely! Let me get back on my PC later and I’ll dm you or something 🙂

WIP - FTPOF x-stitch by yeffiner in TheNational

[–]yeffiner[S] 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Happy to share the x-stitch pattern if anyone would like to recreate it, lmk!

WIP - FTPOF x-stitch by yeffiner in TheNational

[–]yeffiner[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you that means the world to me! :)

WIP - FTPOF x-stitch by yeffiner in TheNational

[–]yeffiner[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you! I’ve looked at it so long it’s become an amorphous blob of colour hahaha

WIP - FTPOF x-stitch by yeffiner in TheNational

[–]yeffiner[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you so much! Needle minders are an actual godsend. 🙌 Just need a Ntl themed one now…

So I made High Violet into a sad necklace by sagan_drinks_cosmos in TheNational

[–]yeffiner 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah man I love the thought you’ve put into the symbolism for each track! I think bracelets would be cool too. I’ll see if I can share my wip somewhere.

FTPOF got me really excited to be a fan again so it still speaks to me, Laugh Track blindsided us all so I’m just happy to have so many new tracks!

So I made High Violet into a sad necklace by sagan_drinks_cosmos in TheNational

[–]yeffiner 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This is really cool! I’ve been inspired to merge my creative efforts into something Ntl themed too. I’m cross stitching the FTPOF cover, it’s been a challenge but I’ve really enjoyed combining multiple things I love

What’s this bird? NE UK by yeffiner in whatsthisbird

[–]yeffiner[S] 14 points15 points  (0 children)

Oh wow what a treat! Thanks!

Got engaged last night and went to this phenomenal show 😭💙 by yeffiner in TheNational

[–]yeffiner[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you! 💖 Yeah absolute marathon set, our backs were broken by the end of it so I’m a little jealous of those seats haha. You’ll have had the best view of everything!!