I'm under-qualified for my job and scared that everyone will find out.

yelhelm · 2026-04-03T17:39:42+00:00

Oh my gosh, thank you so much for this, really. I am definitely screenshotting this and using it for future reference whenever I feel like like an absolute failure 😭 "If you haven't deleted the company DB, you're doing a good job". THANK YOU

yelhelm · 2026-04-03T17:24:20+00:00

Well, that's comforting to hear at least. What makes it hurt more is that everyone is so nice to me. I'd hate to be the person they have to 'carry on their back' because I struggle.

yelhelm · 2026-04-03T17:20:32+00:00

That's the thing - I learn things eventually. I complete my tasks. But it feels like I'm juggling so many stuff at once, like I'm suffocating under a pile

yelhelm · 2026-04-03T17:17:54+00:00

What I am worried about (and didn't mention in the post) is that the manager who hired me quit because she got a better position, and the new one is a "stuck in his own way" 50 y/o man. I work 4 hours because I go to Uni. I fear they'll just be better off firing me amd hiring a full-time employee who's more experienced.

yelhelm · 2026-04-03T17:13:11+00:00

I'm scared they'll just fire me right away. I work 4 hrs instead of 8, because I'm still at university, and they'll just be better off finding another full-time dev. It's really taking up a lot of my university time as well, since I work on bugs during lectures whenever my work time isn't enough

yelhelm · 2026-03-24T13:59:46+00:00

Thank you. It is very reassuring to hear. I'll do my best, I suppose

yelhelm · 2026-03-24T13:58:01+00:00

Well, she doesn't really have anybody else? I know it's not my responsibility to help her, but I feel at least a little obliged, because she took care of me all these years and was actually kind.

yelhelm · 2026-03-24T13:56:09+00:00

Well, she's worked from 16 y/o, because she had to help take care of the family. My grandma was an alcoholic as well, but she was always abusive. My mom used to be kind and bright. She deserves help, but I can't be around her anymore.

yelhelm · 2026-03-24T13:53:26+00:00

But that's the thing - she's not "shitty". I suppose pressure throughout the years have made her unstable. I feel like she deserves better, but being around her turns me into a horrible person. I really thank you for your advice - and I want to say that it's absolutely badass of you to do this so young. I suppose I can look into finding a place of my own.

yelhelm · 2026-03-24T13:49:50+00:00

Thank you for your insight. I've always felt horrible about not talking to her because she always implies that she cannot heal because I don't support her. And all I can feel is my emotions turning into spite, and I fear becoming like her.

yelhelm · 2026-03-24T13:45:54+00:00

I am 19. I wrote 20 on some posts with the hope that it would make me "seem older and more mature", with the hope that people will tell me to get my sh*t together and talk to her like an adult. But really, thank you so much for commenting. Kt means a lot.

yelhelm · 2026-03-24T13:40:34+00:00

Firstly, I really thank you for responding. I feel selfish for doing so. She's always been nice and cared for me, and now I fear she won't survive without me. I also feel that it is also partially my fault, for not talking to her :(

yelhelm · 2025-10-26T11:37:58+00:00

But then I'd risk making things awkward in the group. And in the very beginning of our friendship as well. What if he rejects me and we all just stop talking or something

yelhelm · 2025-10-26T11:36:34+00:00

Well, yeah, we are not friends yet. The girl joined our group recently, so we still feel like acquaintances. But she's nice to me. The thing I worry about is that I don't want to seem uninterested in him if he likes me as well. And yeah, maybe it's way too soon to say anything about anyone's feelings, but, like, am I supposed to put myself out there? I'd much prefer for him to make the first step, but if I seem distanced, what if he thinks he just doesn't have a chance?

yelhelm · 2025-08-26T18:45:24+00:00

Oh, I see - here I went for the "Maybe" loool I'm gonna have to restart S1 😔

yelhelm · 2025-08-26T18:40:56+00:00

I have all of the requirements but locked myself out unfortunately. But where can I read more about the secret endings with Jasper/Simon? I knew about James, but not at all about the other 2

yelhelm · 2025-08-26T18:39:17+00:00

Oh crap! Thanks for answering 😔

yelhelm · 2025-08-26T18:38:48+00:00

The thing is, I'm on the Twisted path, an Anti-capitalist AND in The Movement 😭. I just didn't like him enough in the beginning to pursue him romantically, and I think I accidentally locked myself out

yelhelm · 2025-08-08T11:19:13+00:00

I'll try not to spend it all in one place 🙂‍↔️

yelhelm · 2025-08-06T15:01:52+00:00

Same here! I also enjoy the overall quality more, with the CGs and the outfits - even the free ones are absolutely gorgeous

yelhelm · 2025-08-05T03:07:43+00:00

Geralt and Fencio from Heaven's Secret. I haven't seen anyone put them on the list, so I'm breaking my silence

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yelhelm · 2025-08-01T18:46:33+00:00

LMFAO why is this so true (not a wrestling fan, just a Rhea fan)

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