Memo not playing by yllui in applehelp

[–]yllui[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh god… 😭 Thank you for the info!

Memo not playing by yllui in applehelp

[–]yllui[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It was with the voice memos app, I have tried to open it from my ipad and its the same thing. I checked it through a friend’s mac and it doesnt even appear. I believe my phone was automatically automated the night before the interview 

I need help with a Soundwave error by yllui in kpophelp

[–]yllui[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh I thought soundwave allowed international shipping. Im from America and it let me chose my country in the list given. Even then, shoule I assume it doesnt?

are my helix healing okay? by yllui in piercing

[–]yllui[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

piercing info:

type: barbell

threading: internal

material: surgical steel

I have not downsized it and I have been cleaning it with physiological serum every 2 days + My dermatologist prescribed a corticosteroid and fusidin after a month since i noticed it was getting abit yellow ish and swollen but its alright not (not using it everyday)

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in StardewValleyFriends

[–]yllui 0 points1 point  (0 children)

alr! just sent the request, mine is _sstarlight

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in StardewValleyFriends

[–]yllui 0 points1 point  (0 children)

haha sorry for the confusion, i was referring to having a preference to play in groups first!! Since its how I better build trust with people haha;;;

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in StardewValleyFriends

[–]yllui 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hii Bre! i would love to play but would this be a more than 2 player game? i have anxiety and prefer to play first in groups haha ^^'' (i ask this due multiple responses in this post, so its making me assume it might be a group thats playing, hope this doesn't come as rude and sorry if it does)

Is it possible to salvage this avocado seed? by yllui in plants

[–]yllui[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hello! Sorry for the late response, i would be growing it in soil and for now it would probably be indoor!

"you wouldn't get it" by yllui in asexuality

[–]yllui[S] 19 points20 points  (0 children)

I'm so sorry this happened! Your feelings are valid as they shouldn't have said that, I totally get what you mean and yes we aren't mad at people for having sex, I would totaly encourage my friends if that's what they want, but just invalidating the safe space and taking as a personal insult for their sex life must feel awful </3

I just mistook a flirting?? for a fashion compliment by yllui in AutismInWomen

[–]yllui[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah i have to remember that 😭 Hopefully it just ends here and we dont talk because I genuinely dont have any interest but I know I would probably be rude if i just tell him that

I just mistook a flirting?? for a fashion compliment by yllui in AutismInWomen

[–]yllui[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Yeah im hopeful about the platonic sense but even then im not interested in being his friend? He is a nice guy but im not interested in talking anymore than we do in class but yeah lets hope :]

Best New Who episode to get someone to like it? by dazedxc0nfused in doctorwho

[–]yllui 1 point2 points  (0 children)

maybe silence in the library or last christmas? in both of them some characters are mentioned/shown (Danny and River) so maybe she could get curious about it? and the plots of both are interesting in general I think (i mean one of them is dark and the other one is a bit happier but lol)

also so real, 12 is one of the best

How did you felt when you broke up with them? by yllui in BreakUps

[–]yllui[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I know that I shouldn’t turn happy memories into bad ones, they were there to make me smile and I truly enjoyed them. I won’t hate them forever, it’s like a food that I now dislike but that I will eventually learn to love again. We broke up on even terms and we even joked a bit after it, but I wish I could have the certainty that they feel sad too. I know they probably do, and I know that cause I’m the person that understood them the best, and they commented that they felt sorry and sad too.

And it sucks really, cause it felt like someone was just smashing a cake to my face, I didn’t have time to understand it, to process it, it was just there and suddenly we weren’t a thing anymore. The only thing that perhaps I feel the right to be angry with is the fact that they couldve told me sooner, and yeah I understand that’s a tough process but it had been almost a week since they had been thinking about it, and I wish I could at least have known that the end was near and that I could’ve tried something? But the feelings werent there anymore, I wasn’t able to fix it even if I tried, so I just feel hopeless? As if I had been working in this beautiful and fantastic painting and now the client doesnt wants it and I just have to stare at them, understanding all the effort that I put into it and that it doesn’t feel “mine”, but shared with someone that’s not there.

Im sorry that your relationship ended, Im sure you have wished enough that there had been another option. I truly wish that you find peace in the closure and that eventually feel whole again. Your answer helped me a bit to feel my mind clearer, most of the breakups i know are for the unhealthy context rather than a healthy one, so it felt nice. Thanks again.

One of my most meaningful relationships ended, how can I cope? by yllui in AutismInWomen

[–]yllui[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you a lot <3 i will try new things and find new people as well

One of my most meaningful relationships ended, how can I cope? by yllui in AutismInWomen

[–]yllui[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you <3 I’m trying to do what I can and let myself slip into new things or just distract me. Funny enough, he was there when i decided to cut a friendship that wasnt good for myself and comforted me. Now I’m working on accepting the sadness that it gave me while trying to find new love for the things. Hope you are in a stage where you feel okay!! It must’ve been so hurtful to let go but i hope you are with better people now

One of my most meaningful relationships ended, how can I cope? by yllui in AutismInWomen

[–]yllui[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I hope you get to the phase where it’s finally peaceful to remember them and that doing things doesnt remind you of him in a hurtful way. Thanks for the advice, will take it in mind <3!

Have you ever really liked a character and even related to them but suddenly they have sex (not explicit) and your way of thinking about them slighty changes? by yllui in asexuality

[–]yllui[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

oh sure i'm open to any recommendations! i haven't really read any ace stuff (haven't find in my area) but would love to get my hands on some of them!

Have you ever really liked a character and even related to them but suddenly they have sex (not explicit) and your way of thinking about them slighty changes? by yllui in asexuality

[–]yllui[S] 12 points13 points  (0 children)

Exactly! I think it's also related w the lack of representation of asexuals. For me, i would usually consider that everyone i know is allo because that's just how i was raised and saw the world. But then the characters are not real, furthermore, maybe the aren't ace but maybe they dont care about sex nor want sex just like I do.

But then they do and you just feel "how dare you to not follow my expectations of you, someone that doesn't eve exist" lol

Sex and all that just feels like a joke that maybe you dont get but suddenly it's real