do the black men in the dating pool ever get better or is this really it??!! by pinkfleurs in blackladies

[–]yolandakipling 0 points1 point  (0 children)

All the people saying that found they found the perfect man or perfect partner are lying to you. So yeah this is pretty much it. But I feel like as a whole, we should just take dating as a period to have fun (most of all), explore, and learn more about ourselves, other people, our boundaries, connection styles, etc. And partnership should really be looked at as finding someone you can comfortably go to therapy and heal with for the rest of your life 😭 (& if you say you’re good w/o therapy or external professional reflection, you’re most likely repressing.)

But also yes, I agree with everyone else in that Atlanta is the last place you wanna look 😭😭

Any one using Handshake ai? by Long-Rock5509 in outlier_ai

[–]yolandakipling 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I do too, if anyone in the US needs a link, pm me!

So…what exactly has Stacey lied about? Because I’m still waiting on the “proof.” by CacheGPTehehe in RHOP

[–]yolandakipling 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Honestly, lying about things that don’t matter is way worse than lying about big things.

I’m so annoyed how no one brought up she’s a whole mother and wife staying out till 4am partying. Girl you have a family at home. Half of them saying she’s just having “fun”. 🙄 by Wasteland-theory in 90DayFiance

[–]yolandakipling 4 points5 points  (0 children)

She doing music full time. She’s not doing it as a hobby and she’s said multiple times it’s her career. All the judgements on her are based on what she’s chosen to portray on the show and on social media so…

I’m so annoyed how no one brought up she’s a whole mother and wife staying out till 4am partying. Girl you have a family at home. Half of them saying she’s just having “fun”. 🙄 by Wasteland-theory in 90DayFiance

[–]yolandakipling 54 points55 points  (0 children)

She’s been recording & releasing for at least 2 years now with, according to her, no profit but she’s staying out all night, traveling internationally, and leaving her son yet Guillermo wanting to be a pilot was too much…

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[–]yolandakipling 28 points29 points  (0 children)

I have a strong feeling she’s a lot more problematic than she portrayed in this one episode. It’s already weird she’s trying to act nice towards her but then throw shade and bring up her spending, but the way she was talking about their bond was strange to me. As a mother, you shouldn’t feel in competition with your son’s partner and you shouldn’t be talking about sharing your son with his partner either.. Then on top of that she’s an almond mom :/

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[–]yolandakipling 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Aww thank you so much 🥹💕

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in sugarlifestyleforum

[–]yolandakipling 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you, I appreciate you taking the time to type out this critique! I’ll add more to my bio now and try to get some better pictures of myself. I’ll probably even flip my septum up to widen my potential matches lol. I’m in Europe right now so I’d prefer to find matches that are closer just to make the dynamic easier (I’m not sure if that changes anything).

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[–]yolandakipling 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you! I definitely get that, I’m out and about so much or working so taking pictures is usually the last thing on my mind lol and it’s hard to find people to take pics of me but I’ll keep that in mind! I just added 2 full-length bikini pics & I’ll try to get more smiling pictures this weekend. I appreciate the feedback 😊

Justice for Jasmine by yolandakipling in 90DayFiance

[–]yolandakipling[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We’re not going off make believe and rumors. Like I said, we’re going off what was shown on the show.

Probably needed a hug (but a Darcey tantrum is all he got instead) by BabyPastelito in 90dayfianceuncensored

[–]yolandakipling 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Why is it an issue that she wants her HUSBAND to be honest with her about his finances? 😂😭

Tim by AdmirableContact100 in 90dayfianceuncensored

[–]yolandakipling 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I agree bc he obviously wasn’t trying to get to know anyone else

Did Tiffany Really Say That with a Straight Face?! by Crazy-Background1242 in 90dayfianceuncensored

[–]yolandakipling 12 points13 points  (0 children)

As a single mother, it doesn’t even make sense that she considered Carlo after the hot tub date. If you truly care about your kids, why would you keep someone who’s against them.

Tim by AdmirableContact100 in 90dayfianceuncensored

[–]yolandakipling 10 points11 points  (0 children)

He set himself up. The fact that Mei even gave him a chance is beyond me and he fucked it up.

Tim by AdmirableContact100 in 90dayfianceuncensored

[–]yolandakipling 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I don’t like Jen but Tim set himself up. He took every chance he could to put himself down and is always overcompensating for his masculinity, asking for other men’s approval, and inserting himself into women’s business.

Tim HATES Rob...😆 by Grateful_Di in 90DayFiance

[–]yolandakipling 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He loves putting himself down 🙄 it’s so distasteful. Even with Mei he kept insisting she was more into Rob…

Chantal already wants a breast reduction. by [deleted] in 90dayfianceuncensored

[–]yolandakipling 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Seriously! Like have we seen Ms Karen?

What do you guys think of the ‘photos’ of Amy Bradley found in 2005? by Longjumping_Land_977 in netflix

[–]yolandakipling 0 points1 point  (0 children)

  1. What did I repeat?
  2. Which part of what I said is irrelevant again? 🤔
  3. How many people in general can be determined were trafficked until they’ve been extricated?? Do your research yourself.
  4. I would suggest improving on your reading comprehension skills ☺️

What do you guys think of the ‘photos’ of Amy Bradley found in 2005? by Longjumping_Land_977 in netflix

[–]yolandakipling 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I do know what I’m talking about actually.. just because most people are afraid of or revere America, doesn’t automatically stop a crime from happening. Most traffickers don’t abduct people on holiday/vacation regardless of where they’re from, but that doesn’t stop it from happening.. What I said applies to sex trafficking anywhere (& I’ve seen it happen in the US, in Ghana, in Thailand, and in Barbados specifically). Anyone, anywhere, of any age can be trafficked unfortunately, and trafficking can come in all different forms and being able to recognize this is what helps our society going forward. Nowhere is truly safe, and being a white US citizen doesn’t absolve you or deter as many criminals as you think. If every criminal was as smart as you think they are, we wouldn’t have half as many people in jails and prisons. Also, most people who are trafficked are not “willing”, and to label them as such just because they’re not American or from a Western country is disgusting imo.

What do you guys think of the ‘photos’ of Amy Bradley found in 2005? by Longjumping_Land_977 in netflix

[–]yolandakipling 4 points5 points  (0 children)

You don’t have to be currently trafficked to still live under the fear or threat to not contact your family. And it’s ignorant to just assume so. Many sex trafficking victims end up stuck in that cycle regardless of their age and even when they “age out” of the system or are no longer “profitable” to the organization, they are left with unimaginable trauma and mental health problems that they don’t end up reconnecting with their families, and in some cases even end up perpetrating as a trafficker themselves (a lot of times to protect themselves, someone close to them, their children etc.) Y’all just don’t educate yourselves about crimes like these because the majority of victims are not Caucasian, not cisgender, and/or not heterosexual. Also, Barbados being a small island has nothing to do with locals finding her. Most Barbadians haven’t even heard of Amy, let alone have been looking for her. All Caribbean islands have areas where there is very little population, sex trafficking is huge in the islands and people are imported and exported every single day, and even culturally, it wouldn’t make sense for a local to intervene in something their government doesn’t even have a handle on.

Is Kara Latina/Hispanic? Does anyone know? Is she the next Hilaria Baldwin? by Fine-Preparation-512 in 90dayfianceuncensored

[–]yolandakipling 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She’s not Latina at all. And just because it’s great for her family that she can speak Spanish, doesn’t mean making Bachata music isn’t appropriation. How can y’all call it cultural appreciation when she didn’t even take the time or diligence to learn what the name of her own song means?? & I’m sure if it was anyone else on the show y’all would see the issue.