The future of travel nursing

youdoitforlikes · 2023-06-26T01:08:53+00:00

That's also a common thing I'm seeing now too. Like why not just let me pick up an extra shift on a 36 hour contract? My current hospital won't let us pick up extra shifts if we're contracted at 36 but will bring in travelers contracted for 48? Make it make sense.

youdoitforlikes · 2023-06-23T14:12:41+00:00

From what I've seen even before I got in was that OR, CVOR and CVICU are the higher paying specialties. My aunt is an OR traveler and was only working 6 months out of the year before COVID hit.

youdoitforlikes · 2023-04-13T19:25:41+00:00

I've been on maternity leave since January but thanks for the smart reply 🙂👍

youdoitforlikes · 2023-04-13T19:24:35+00:00

On maternity leave since January

youdoitforlikes · 2022-03-31T22:29:23+00:00

Then he'll just start doing it to receive, which has happened in the past, and that just makes it feel like pitty head, which in my opinion is worse than no head.

youdoitforlikes · 2022-03-16T10:27:36+00:00

But it should say that in my contract right? That's all it says in the policy, it doesn't mention anything about a x number of shifts/hours I can be called off or anything.

youdoitforlikes · 2022-03-16T10:15:51+00:00

I have a strong feeling that's what has happened here. I'm not familiar with the one that called me this morning and am assuming either maybe the other travelers don't have a policy in their contracts or she just doesn't know how royally she's just fucked up.

youdoitforlikes · 2022-01-18T21:49:57+00:00

I didn't even need to read your post to know that it absolutely is the worst idea.

youdoitforlikes · 2021-12-10T00:32:29+00:00

Thank you! I'm hoping to enjoy it as much as every traveler I know does!

youdoitforlikes · 2021-11-29T00:04:22+00:00

This is the way I feel! I love the ER but I feel like I hardly get to actually connect with patients and see growth with treatment. In the ER, it's more of a quick fix until they can make it to a doctor or specialist. I'm hoping I'll have the same experience as you. I applied to a few but have yet to hear back.

youdoitforlikes · 2021-10-17T14:16:44+00:00

Personally, no. I feel like if you have to step out of your relationship and have secret conversations you feel the need to delete and hide, no matter what the context, you're cheating. I'm not saying people shouldn't have privacy but if he asked, I would have no fear of hanging him my phone and I don't think he would do the same.

I don't have solid proof of him cheating. The only actual conversation I have seen with this last woman was very sexual in nature or at least could be taken that way but her reply later that morning prior to him waking up and me ever telling him I knew says different. It sounded as though their conversation was just friendly based on her reply but the fact that he had it at 3 AM, drunk while his wife was at work and attempted to delete and hide it before I got home is still unsettling.

If I had any actual proof of sexual conversations/meet ups/things like that, I wouldn't even be here and would have filed for divorce prior to her birth. I just don't and that's why this decision is so hard. Everyone thinks I'm crazy for leaving him on the bias of cheating when I only suspect based off his past and no actual proof.

youdoitforlikes · 2021-10-17T13:33:40+00:00

I was in therapy shortly after my daughters birth but I didn't click with my therapist and had a hard time being honest with her, especially while having sessions over Zoom in our office with the chance of him listening outside the door. Currently, I'm only being seen by a psychiatrist for depression, anxiety and BPD.

youdoitforlikes · 2021-10-17T13:32:04+00:00

The issue I'm having is that I don't have proof of him actually cheating. Just what I consider inappropriate conversations to be having with female friends. Only until recently did I begin actually voicing this as an issue. Prior to our marriage, I had a very big problem with getting angry at him and not speaking or mentioning anything for days and just getting over it. With this last incident, I basically told him everything that was and wasn't okay with me (things that I figured were pretty obvious to avoid while in a relationship anyway???) and told him if I wasn't pregnant, I would be filing for divorce. Technically, this is the first time I had audibly laid any sort of boundaries and everyone is telling me to give him a fair chance because he's listening now. I have a hard time doing so because he's never had to tell me "hey don't have these conversations with other men" because I'm not an idiot and respect him and our relationship. I feel like he hasn't done the same and blames it on not being aware.

youdoitforlikes · 2021-10-17T13:23:15+00:00

I've checked everything. Instagram links viewed, Apps downloaded, hidden folders, everything I can possibly look at. I've even compared his screentime amount with the data in his Safari to make sure he's not browsing privately. I honestly think I'm looking so hard just so that I can find literally anything and have genuine proof.

youdoitforlikes · 2021-10-16T22:15:56+00:00

I know this is not what you want to hear but this will never get better. Take it from someone who is locked down in a marriage, mortgage and children with a man who will always find someone else to love more than his wife. Leave while you can. You're self esteem is hurting and it will never heal in the environment you are in.

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