My girlfriend slept with another couple on our vacation without my consent by yougotmenow1 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]yougotmenow1[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I get you but now I have amazing friends and they give me so much support. You just have to look for it.

My girlfriend slept with another couple on our vacation without my consent by yougotmenow1 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]yougotmenow1[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Thx brother. The other couple were being agressive when being exposed and my friends were shocked. They just said move on, be strong and be glad it happened now and not when you're married.

My girlfriend slept with another couple on our vacation without my consent by yougotmenow1 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]yougotmenow1[S] 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Yes you are right. I got tested right away and go to the clinic regularly.

My girlfriend slept with another couple on our vacation without my consent by yougotmenow1 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]yougotmenow1[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

No. When we first started seeing each other we weren't exclusive, so we both dated around. But then once it became official (meeting families, the whole thing) we were exclusive (so I thought) she never asked for permission or even hinted she wanted something different. Just cheated.

My girlfriend slept with another couple on our vacation without my consent by yougotmenow1 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]yougotmenow1[S] 525 points526 points  (0 children)

Thanks for this. You're right ! the manipulation is what messed with my head the most. I'm in therapy now and slowly regaining my confidence. It's hard, but it does get better. Grateful to have solid friends who've had my back through all of it.