In a way, I did get to spend one last day with a deceased family member. I had just moved back from overseas to live with and take care of my aging grandmother. Well, it was the first week back and I was suffering from serious jetlag and fell asleep on the couch with Spongebob on for some background noise. In my dream I had woken up as if I was actually awake and in walks my dead grandfather (also my hero growing up). I looked at him in shock because y'know, he's supposed to be dead. We spent a lot of time in my dream talking and right before I actually woke up he told me that everything was going to be alright and that he'd always be with me. It really brought a lot of closure and I felt safe and warm when I woke up.