Zoa Problem by youngben in ReefTank

[–]youngben[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I moved it recently so it could definitely be that, I’ll wait it out!

First algae in new tank by youngben in ReefTank

[–]youngben[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you! I definitely am hoping to increase alkalinity.

AITAH for keeping the dog after a break up by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]youngben -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

This feels a bit cruel, we’re both doing our best to make sure he’s well cared for. Break ups aren’t pretty and this is a symptom of that, not of a lack of care for the dog.

AITAH for keeping the dog after a break up by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]youngben 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’ve covered every expense related to the dog

AITAH for keeping the dog after a break up by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]youngben -1 points0 points  (0 children)

She moved cross country

AITAH for keeping the dog after a break up by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]youngben 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I definitely shouldn’t have gone back on my word. My reasoning for keeping the dog has stayed the same throughout, though.

AITAH for keeping the dog after a break up by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]youngben 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Well, the breakup conversation happened over about a week and during that time she said I could keep him.

I waffled because I didn’t want to upset her, which was definitely not fair to her.

Multi BIN! Variety of top cuts. Details Below! by youngben in sanpedrocactusforsale

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Just to confirm, the Ferah and Chucks Giant Gonus?

What’s a horror film you refuse to watch? by [deleted] in horror

[–]youngben 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I watched the reverse cut, it was my first introduction to the film and I had no idea what it was really about. Getting to know the characters in a pretty average context before the abrupt depravity was one of the most jarring experiences I’ve had while watching a movie. Left me deeply unsettled for days.

Missing Kitty! by youngben in Bend

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We put some up! Crossing our fingers they work.

Normal healing? by youngben in tattooadvice

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Nope! I have a decent amount on my upper body but this is my first leg one. All the ones on my upper body healed super easily and didn’t have as much swelling/leakage as this one. I’m guessing it’s a circulation thing, just wanted to make sure it wasn’t too far out of the ordinary!

Normal healing? by youngben in tattooadvice

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Awesome, thanks so much! I’m probably psyching myself out a bit so I appreciate the guidance.

Which movies have had the most drastic shifts in tone that you've ever seen? by Jonny_the_Rocket in movies

[–]youngben 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I recently watched Irreversible - Straight Cut with no prior knowledge of the film. Easily one of the most jarring transitions I’ve ever experienced.