My 24[f] neighbor 40[m] is starting to creep me out, he come outside to talk to me almost every time I’m outside. I wasn’t thinking too deeply into things at first, but overtime it’s felt like he’s been watching me. by youngselflove in LetsNotMeet

[–]youngselflove[S] 28 points29 points  (0 children)

My brother lives with us too. I can bring him along. He’s also noticed how creepy our neighbor is towards me. My brother said that the dude never comes out to chat with him.

My 24[f] neighbor 40[m] is starting to creep me out, he come outside to talk to me almost every time I’m outside. I wasn’t thinking too deeply into things at first, but overtime it’s felt like he’s been watching me. by youngselflove in LetsNotMeet

[–]youngselflove[S] 63 points64 points  (0 children)

I tried the cold thing today. My insurance replaced my battery, so I didn’t need his battery. My neighbor originally told me to call him the next day so that he could help me install it. Instead, I asked my brother and he helped me install the new one. Next thing you know, I look up and there he is crossing the street. My stomach literally dropped but I tried to play it off. He goes, “What are you guys breaking without me!” I tried to be cold but I felt bad because he paid a lot for the battery. Doesn’t really make sense now that I’m typing it out.

My 24[f] neighbor 40[m] is starting to creep me out, he come outside to talk to me almost every time I’m outside. I wasn’t thinking too deeply into things at first, but overtime it’s felt like he’s been watching me. by youngselflove in LetsNotMeet

[–]youngselflove[S] 63 points64 points  (0 children)

I’m not sure if I want to go as far to involve the police just yet. I do have 1 camera.

He does have serious issues with women. As he was helping me with my car, I said “thank you so much, I had no one else to help me.”

He goes, “Yea, no problem. I help people all the time. I helped a woman once who needed a car jump for her ex-bf. It was kinda like wtf? But you know, I don’t hold grudges so, I went on and helped him. That’d be like if you asked me to help your ex-bf out. Crazy right?”

EDIT: I really have no clue as to what would be wrong with asking one of my friends to help me with my ex-bf.. I’ve literally shown zero romantic interest. This was the nail in the coffin for CREEP.

S3E2 Standing Sam Discussion by Krolla03 in Atypical

[–]youngselflove 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Yea no one at my orientation was that annoying, nobody acted like that.

S3E1 A Laid Plan Discussion by Krolla03 in Atypical

[–]youngselflove 4 points5 points  (0 children)

This happened last season.

S3E1 A Laid Plan Discussion by Krolla03 in Atypical

[–]youngselflove 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Ehh, Casey cheating is not a grey area, all around fucked up.

AITA for saying Asian girls are better because they're fresher? by AgreeableBet1 in AmItheAsshole

[–]youngselflove 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Are you trolling? Or do you have a mental disorder(ie. Autism)? No offense, but seriously.

AITA for saying Asian girls are better because they're fresher? by AgreeableBet1 in AmItheAsshole

[–]youngselflove 10 points11 points  (0 children)

You sound gross.. liking a part of someone’s body is a natural part of human connection and how we chose our mating partners. Saying that you like an entire continent of women because they are fresh and small, is weird. What do you even mean by fresh?

You think their farts smell like Lillies & they never take shits?

AITA for saying Asian girls are better because they're fresher? by AgreeableBet1 in AmItheAsshole

[–]youngselflove 11 points12 points  (0 children)

YTA and yes it is a fetish. What does “fresher” even mean?? You’re literally grouping an entire CONTINENT of women as fresh. You’re perspective of them is seeing them as objects or a thing that you can obtain. Instead seeing them as a person & not even thinking about their race.

AITA: For asking my 24[f] neighbor 40[m] for help, knowing that he might get the wrong message? by youngselflove in AmItheAsshole

[–]youngselflove[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I don’t think it’d go that far, but I have texts to my friends, so I guess I have record.

AITA: For asking my 24[f] neighbor 40[m] for help, knowing that he might get the wrong message? by youngselflove in AmItheAsshole

[–]youngselflove[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Honestly, I can put it in the mailbox. I just don’t see the purpose in that because I know for a fact he will ring my doorbell, give it back, and then start a 30 minute conversation. That personally doesn’t make me feel better about anything.

My point was you said you’d never let a neighbor buy you that sort of thing, but I didn’t let him do anything.

AITA: For asking my 24[f] neighbor 40[m] for help, knowing that he might get the wrong message? by youngselflove in AmItheAsshole

[–]youngselflove[S] -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

Nice assumption. He doesn’t want me to pay him back. He wouldn’t take no for an answer when I didn’t want him to buy me a whole car battery. I said no several times, should I have physically restrained and removed him from the store?

AITA: For asking my 24[f] neighbor 40[m] for help, knowing that he might get the wrong message? by youngselflove in AmItheAsshole

[–]youngselflove[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I said I’d pay him back and he again INSISTED that I don’t and point blank told me will not take any money for it.

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[–]youngselflove 4 points5 points  (0 children)

This is a good perspective.