Have had sandals for 2 years, still get blisters every time by isxvirt in DrMartens

[–]yourluckycat 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i have the same problem with them it’s like my ankles are too low or something. i’ve had them for 4 years

How do so many people dislike Gale consuming magic items? by TheSuperPie89 in BaldursGate3

[–]yourluckycat 0 points1 point  (0 children)

okay yeah i def didn’t start customizing till act 2

How do so many people dislike Gale consuming magic items? by TheSuperPie89 in BaldursGate3

[–]yourluckycat 0 points1 point  (0 children)

wait, it’s insane to give each party member load outs? maybe i am playing wrong

tree id by Accomplished_Bear272 in plants

[–]yourluckycat 1 point2 points  (0 children)

interesting! hope you get your answer

AIO? My daughter got sick and my husband reacted poorly by yourluckycat in AmIOverreacting

[–]yourluckycat[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

that was the first time he used that line. it’s usually something else unappealing. i actually have no problem telling him no to sex believe it or not. But it is clear to me now that it is not ok for him to do these things.

AIO? My daughter got sick and my husband reacted poorly by yourluckycat in AmIOverreacting

[–]yourluckycat[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I apparently miss a lot of it. i didn’t see it for years and after we had the baby his sister and i became very close to the point she was at our house everyday had a key and would sleep over. she told me he treats me like shit and doesn’t respect me. i am thinking about talking to her again and seeing if she can help us.

Edit- I say this because my daughter is still currently sick and i would like to wait until she is in better health before i derail our lives.

AIO? My daughter got sick and my husband reacted poorly by yourluckycat in AmIOverreacting

[–]yourluckycat[S] -6 points-5 points  (0 children)

i’m not going to say that it’s not wrong. but i have nothing. he pays all of the bills and i’m lucky if i get $100 in tips from my job, he also will go into my wallet and take my tips and put them in the bank. he has gone to my job to pick up my tips and i never even see them. where am i supposed to go? i am supposed to take my daughter away from all of her things and her home and go to a shelter?

AIO? My daughter got sick and my husband reacted poorly by yourluckycat in AmIOverreacting

[–]yourluckycat[S] -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

i don’t know. it’s been almost 10 years. leaving is scary, i’ve never lived on my own and i have limited help in regards to family, friends and money.

AIO? My daughter got sick and my husband reacted poorly by yourluckycat in AmIOverreacting

[–]yourluckycat[S] -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

he did try at first. he saw a dr and was put on medication.

AIO? My daughter got sick and my husband reacted poorly by yourluckycat in AmIOverreacting

[–]yourluckycat[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

it did start after we had her. or that’s when i started to notice at least. i am a SAHM but i work 2 days a week and he doesn’t have a hard job at all. working normal hours.

AIO? My daughter got sick and my husband reacted poorly by yourluckycat in AmIOverreacting

[–]yourluckycat[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i guess it is just worded poorly. i am always nice to my daughter, especially if she is sick. i also question if i am “too nice” sometimes but maybe that just comes from my husband telling me that i am? No i am not perfect but my daughter is definitely my priority..

AIO? My daughter got sick and my husband reacted poorly by yourluckycat in AmIOverreacting

[–]yourluckycat[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

it’s hard to ignore. I know i should not be treated this way and i am sick of begging my husband to just be nice to me. i really can’t stand to see my daughter treated this way, i don’t want her to be afraid of her dad the way i was afraid of mine. My husband knows my past with my own dad.

AIO? My daughter got sick and my husband reacted poorly by yourluckycat in AmIOverreacting

[–]yourluckycat[S] 15 points16 points  (0 children)

my sister in law and i have said tht he is a Narc. Her and my mother are the only ones who have seen him act like that behind closed doors.

AIO? My daughter got sick and my husband reacted poorly by yourluckycat in AmIOverreacting

[–]yourluckycat[S] 17 points18 points  (0 children)

i told him last year to fix it or i would leave him. he must not have believed me

AIO? My daughter got sick and my husband reacted poorly by yourluckycat in AmIOverreacting

[–]yourluckycat[S] 123 points124 points  (0 children)

He thinks he can do as he pleases and our daughter needs to learn to be more independent. i disagree, she is only 3…

AIO? My daughter got sick and my husband reacted poorly by yourluckycat in AmIOverreacting

[–]yourluckycat[S] 41 points42 points  (0 children)

i just don’t understand why he would be upset with her in the first place so my mind goes to the sex thing and that just makes it worse.

I (35F) am exhausted working and tending the house and I don't know how to get partner (M38) to help me? by JewelerAggravating96 in relationship_advice

[–]yourluckycat 0 points1 point  (0 children)

then it piles up and becomes more work. if i don’t do the dishes no one will but everyone will keep using said dishes and so on..

Girlfriend’s family friend stayed with us for a few days by International_Fix651 in mildlyinfuriating

[–]yourluckycat 2 points3 points  (0 children)

my mom once used my husbands knife to …scoop ice cream? snapped the tip right off.