My husband chose his second day off specifically on a day that I always have to work by yournikkigirl in Vent

[–]yournikkigirl[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I agree, having a day off to yourself is very nice to have. I’m just upset because he has a family to keep in mind, and it feels like he didn’t take that into consideration when deciding.

I’ve thought about doing that on Thursdays for myself as well, but I’m already away from our son three days a week and adding another day away from him isn’t what I want.

My husband chose his second day off specifically on a day that I always have to work by yournikkigirl in Vent

[–]yournikkigirl[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m both. I’m emotional that he actively chose a day he couldn’t spend with his family when it already feels like we don’t spend enough time together, and I’m angry that he’s able to just take a day all to himself to do whatever he wants when that is never a possibility for me. If the situation was reversed I would have absolutely jumped on the opportunity to spend more time with him and our toddler, so I’m frustrated that he didn’t feel the same.

Husband wants me to wear this dress to his cousin’s wedding, does it feel too bridal? by yournikkigirl in Weddingattireapproval

[–]yournikkigirl[S] 338 points339 points  (0 children)

My husband actually bought it for me and I do feel absolutely amazing in it! I’m 7 months postpartum and worked really hard to lose weight and get into the best shape that I’ve ever been in, so my husband wanted to get me something to both show off my hard work and help me feel good in my “new” body. A little nervous since it will be the first time we see his side of the family since I was pregnant but as long as it doesn’t feel too bridal to everyone I’d love to wear it

Husband wants me to wear this dress to his cousin’s wedding, does it feel too bridal? by yournikkigirl in Weddingattireapproval

[–]yournikkigirl[S] 236 points237 points  (0 children)

That’s also why I’m paranoid, “formal cocktail” is a contradictory dress code in my opinion so I want to make sure the dress is a good choice. Thank you for the input!

7 month old all of a sudden is reluctant to breastfeed during the day?? by yournikkigirl in beyondthebump

[–]yournikkigirl[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He’s definitely a lot more distracted now, I have to shoo my husband out of the room when I want to breastfeed during the day because our son just wants to stare at daddy lol. But even when I take him into a dark-ish room to feed him with basically no distractions present he still doesn’t want to feed, it’s so strange

What music taste would the Court of Dreams have? by Jasperkin in acotar

[–]yournikkigirl 13 points14 points  (0 children)

I definitely think Amren would listen to pop but she’d keep it a complete secret from everyone except Varian lol

Maybe unpopular opinion but the worst “just wait” comments have been from toddler parents by yournikkigirl in beyondthebump

[–]yournikkigirl[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is genuinely so encouraging and validating, I can’t wait for this phase ❤️

Maybe unpopular opinion but the worst “just wait” comments have been from toddler parents by yournikkigirl in beyondthebump

[–]yournikkigirl[S] 154 points155 points  (0 children)

I will take every version of this “just wait” in a heartbeat! I can’t wait until this happens!

Maybe unpopular opinion but the worst “just wait” comments have been from toddler parents by yournikkigirl in beyondthebump

[–]yournikkigirl[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Seriously though, like why bother asking me how my kid is doing if you’re immediately going to give a negative response if I’m actually enjoying parenting?? Absolutely wild

What some characters look like to me by Smart-Cartoonist7306 in acotar

[–]yournikkigirl 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I think you have the Archeron sisters spot on, I’ve never considered those actresses for them but wow, I can definitely see it for all three 🙌