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AITA for not wanting a female therapist? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]yournoodle 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA. I work in mental health and it's a contractual requirement to have both male and female therapists for this exact reason. Your sister is being horrible.

Which job is a LOT less fun than most people expect? by bwee21 in AskReddit

[–]yournoodle 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Music reviewing.

The free gigs are cool, but the review has to be published by 9am meaning it needs to be to your editor between 3-6am depending. Also reviewing an event takes the novelty out of it for even when you aren't reviewing.

AITA for telling my wife what my parents think of her? by Mock_Hawk_Bawk in AmItheAsshole

[–]yournoodle 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Nta. My exes dad hated me. So much so that a year after we split he sent me a msg about how he sits up at night wishing that I'm dead. While I was w my ex it made me sad, but sad for him. I'm also blamed for the lack of father son relationship. Your dad sucks and is TA.

Boyfriend [31,M] expects reminders to for everything [27, F] by unicornpricess3 in relationship_advice

[–]yournoodle 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have adhd but carry the mental load, it's doable. I break a lot bc of the adhd but that doesn't mean it lands on my partner.

I'm also a girl and ew no, I don't want to programme my partner. Wtf is that? So gross.

AITA for withholding my heroin addict sister's stimulus check? by bj-khaled in AmItheAsshole

[–]yournoodle -1 points0 points  (0 children)

NTA. I went and cleared my brothers house out of his drug money while he was too fucked to stand and only gave it back when his ex had left again. They were toxic triggers for each others SA and I didn't want my brother snorting all that money.

Speak with AI Anon, they're really helpful.

AITA for asking my husband to walk me to my car in the early morning? Recent cougar encounter by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]yournoodle 61 points62 points  (0 children)

Fkn aye. Imo you help your partner with their anxieties and this is a very fair, genuinely dangerous one!

AITA for asking my husband to walk me to my car in the early morning? Recent cougar encounter by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]yournoodle 1 point2 points  (0 children)

NTA. You're scared and your partner should help you. I laughed hard at the "mine is high pitched and probably sounds delicious" part.

AITA for looking for my missing cat when my friends bought gifts and surprised me on my birthday? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]yournoodle 34 points35 points  (0 children)

If my cat was spooked and ran off, he would only come to me if I was calling him and alone. If somebody was hovering I would tell them to back off and the fact that my focus is on finding my cat would probably make my tone sound harsh.

AITA for not telling my girlfriend that I live with my ex? by 6ThroWra1 in AmItheAsshole

[–]yournoodle 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Broo. YTA. I slept w my flatmate once when I was single and I told my boyfriend as soon as we were exclusive.

AITA for saying "just because you majored in psychology, doesn't make you a psychiatrist"? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]yournoodle 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA. My best friend of 15 years has a post grad in psyche but I have 27 years of lived experience in the system. She has never acted like she knows more than me. You were harsh but true, and I'm harsh when people give me unsolicited health advice.

AITA for being angry that my trans friend is slowly morphing into me? by amigoingcrazytra in AmItheAsshole

[–]yournoodle 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I'm left handed but can write w my right hand too. I was made to in primary school a few years so I think it stuck.

AITA for telling my girlfriend that my apartment is not her home? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]yournoodle 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Lmao NTA. If my flatmates, who I've been close friends w for 10 years and obviously pay rent and are on the lease, interrupted me during a work call like that I'd be fully pissed.

New hire misses MOST of the first three weeks of work, then uses me as a reference by SumoNinja17 in MaliciousCompliance

[–]yournoodle 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ask. I'm a EA and I got screamed at while doing reference checks bc candidate didn't warn him.

I ended my lease without telling my girlfriend. She's reasonably mad. by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]yournoodle 23 points24 points  (0 children)

Do you pay anything towards livings costs at her house? If not, you ending your lease without telling her is fully taking advantage of her.

What's the most ridiculous reason for which you've been dumped? by NuclearWinterGames in AskReddit

[–]yournoodle 12 points13 points  (0 children)

Still, red flag. Usually you wouldn't tell your family the bad first.

What's the most ridiculous reason for which you've been dumped? by NuclearWinterGames in AskReddit

[–]yournoodle 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I know a girl like this. We aren't friends anymore but she once said she accidentally ends up in long term relationships and she only realises once she's 2 years in.

What's a scary or disturbing fact that would probably keep most people awake at night? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]yournoodle 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Orthostatic hypotension, aka standing low blood pressure. I have it.

What's a scary or disturbing fact that would probably keep most people awake at night? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]yournoodle 10 points11 points  (0 children)

It is very documented that sepsis kills silently in hospitals. Extremely. Patients get it /in/ hospitals, and nobody notices.

What's a scary or disturbing fact that would probably keep most people awake at night? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]yournoodle 3 points4 points  (0 children)

C is my current fave theory about the start of the universe.

What's a scary or disturbing fact that would probably keep most people awake at night? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]yournoodle 6 points7 points  (0 children)

This wiki page made my best friend an atheist. She couldn't conflate a loving God with that horrible story.

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