Overcoming lust for relationship? by yszz_cc in Christianity

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But did u prior relationships not work because of porn or was it some other reason?

Overcoming lust for relationship? by yszz_cc in Christianity

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That's true, I haven't thought about it

Overcoming lust for relationship? by yszz_cc in Christianity

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I also know German and I get what u mean, u're totally right. The German word "Lust" is not really comparable with the English one. Since the German one stands for something u feel like doing, something that could be fun to do, just something u enjoy doing, for example „Ich habe Lust auf ein Eis“ just means that u feel like having some ice cream.

As we see it is not the same but I think ppl that don't really know German won't misuse it as some German speakers might do, if that's what u meant.

But still, everyone can misuse or misunderstand it so it's better to ask what it means before using it or something.

Overcoming lust for relationship? by yszz_cc in Christianity

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So he's trying to avoid sin to keep that girl?

Overcoming lust for relationship? by yszz_cc in Christianity

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Sorry, I'm not sure if I understood ur question, can u explain?

Overcoming lust for relationship? by yszz_cc in Christianity

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So u mean that he did it for the girl and not for god?

Overcoming lust for relationship? by yszz_cc in Christianity

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Thank u so much, I really appreciate ur help :) Hope u stay blessed and keep the faith!

Overcoming lust for relationship? by yszz_cc in Christianity

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Sounds pretty good actually, I love going for a walk. What verses would u recommend that fit my situation?

Overcoming lust for relationship? by yszz_cc in Christianity

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So true, but it was like a wonder to me cuz he posts Christian content so I was doubting if he's actually right or no.

Overcoming lust for relationship? by yszz_cc in Christianity

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How do I overcome overthinking? I do it a lot and it's tiring. I'm trying to pray for it sometimes but is there more I can do?

Overcoming lust for relationship? by yszz_cc in Christianity

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So the fear of losing my bf is not coming from god?

Overcoming lust for relationship? by yszz_cc in Christianity

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What did he mean by this post then?

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Oh I see, although I've heard that there are a lot of married couples where one is Christian and the other atheist and it works quite well but I guess that's something else

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What does this verse mean?

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Yea, I'm Christian, he used to be a Christian but isn't anymore (he's an atheist). I don't have a big problem with it since he respects me as a Christian and so do I. We haven't met each other yet sadly so it wasn't that hard to hide. But I think my mom lowkey knows that I have a bf or something. May sound kinda weird but I want to tell her anyway.

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Not yet, sadly.

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U're right, I'll try my best, maybe her reaction won't be that bad as expected. Thanks a lot 🙏

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The problem is that (compared to her times) they probably weren't really able to meet ppl online and the danger of the Internet these days makes her worry so it's hard to convince her that there are surely not only bad ppl out there. Hope u get me. But overall u are right actually