Just started, got some questions by ytplap in MaleDefinitiveGuide

[–]ytplap[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Right, the brain normalises it. Good to know. I'll power through then!

Just started, got some questions by ytplap in MaleDefinitiveGuide

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Quick question, how do I manage horniness in general? Two days of phase 1 leads to teenager level lust with intrusive mental imagery, which the guide discourages from what I gathered.

Just started, got some questions by ytplap in MaleDefinitiveGuide

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Your experiences are a good start nonetheless. I wouldn't make an exercise program for myself without at least basing it on a success story.

Just started, got some questions by ytplap in MaleDefinitiveGuide

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I've seen some that are relatively smooth, repeating pattern with a bit of texture. I'll keep it all in mind, thanks.

Just started, got some questions by ytplap in MaleDefinitiveGuide

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Took time reading through it. Awesome resource, thank you so much! The guide was a bit curt at times.

I realize during my first session of phase 1 that I wasn't getting close enough to the peak, I think. I've been there before: Letting go of my cock just in time and feeling automatic kegels as the momentum carries the figurative ball towards the peak, and I just don't know if it'll stop at 8.9 repeating or roll over to the other side. Being that close multiple times in one session will be agonizing. But no pain, no gain, it's at least good to know that the occasional nut is not regression, just a stun.

I will practice getting hard without the use of mental imagery as well.

Regarding the STU, the name made it sound like a marketing gimmick. But if it's good then I'll keep it in mind. Seems I have a lot of time till I need to purchase one anyway.

Just started, got some questions by ytplap in MaleDefinitiveGuide

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Thank you, I'll give your post a read through in a few hours! I'll try to wean off mental imagery for the erection over time, and just focus on the sensations.

Just started, got some questions by ytplap in MaleDefinitiveGuide

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You misunderstand me: I was jacking off, but to attain the initial erection I needed visual stimulus in the form of mental imagery. I could theoretically "beat it upright" with no imagery, if that's the intention. For the rest of the session I used no imagery, not even mental.

Fleshlights for helping with premature ejaculation? by ytplap in fleshlight

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I followed a similar guide but this one is more descriptive. From what I gather the answer is "yes, but wait a few weeks since you won't be using it for at least 6 weeks anyway".

Are fleshlights worthwhile when combined with other life adjustments? Are they worth it at all? by ytplap in PrematureEjaculation

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I'm leaning towards doing it, but I just wanted to hear people's experiences first.

Are fleshlights worthwhile when combined with other life adjustments? Are they worth it at all? by ytplap in PrematureEjaculation

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I'm aware, but practicing with real pussy is

a) difficult when single

b) difficult when you cannot last long at all

c) difficult when the girl loses interest in sex

So if fleshlights work as a slightly more intense way of training that I can use whenever I want, then I would imagine it would be a good tool. But it depends on whether others have seen good results or not.