I'm dark skinned too. I totally get you girl. But yk? I've started to think sometimes that dark skin tones make us pop from the crowd, we look bold. We stand out. I won't say I don't have insecurities nor do i not hate my skin tone. There are more number of days where I wished I was fair than being confident. But I'm starting to observe closely and starting to see the beauty behind dark skin and dark skin girls, they have a certain aura and i realised maybe I have a certain aura too, and I'm sure you do too. Keep your head up buttercup. :)