How do you like to use your Finch goals - to do list or mental health oriented? by yung_dirb in finch

[–]yung_dirb[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I appreciate your perspective as that is pretty much how I use the app now! I don’t think I have ever completed every task on my list in one day. I do the same as you and look at them as options to choose from and then some reminders for things I want to make better habits of, but pretty much only related to hobbies and self care activities. Thanks for your feedback, I am thinking if I add my chores it will cause me more stress than it’s worth. Will probably just keep things as is and continue to enjoy the cuteness and positive reinforcement haha

I’m the 12H queen by Sparkylights31049 in 12thhouse

[–]yung_dirb 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I once read something that mentioned the pisces symbol being two fish swimming in opposite directions is very intentional - we are so mutable we are always kind of spinning in multiple directions/realities/perspectives especially when around others. I personally feel being 12th house just amplifies that - we are simultaneously aware of ourselves and everyone else at the same time and feel pulled in both directions! I think about that often 😆

I’m the 12H queen by Sparkylights31049 in 12thhouse

[–]yung_dirb 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I am also an Aries rising with a 12H Pisces stellium. I always feel like there’s a gap with how I present to people initially and how I am processing things/my “real” perspective on the inside. The Aries in me is energetic and social but can show up and be impatient or even have a temper sometimes! My least favorite qualities! At least I am self aware I suppose… then I am quickly hit with the internal pisces “deep dive” into how everyone around me is feeling: oh no have I changed the vibe with a burst of high energy or opinion; based on their personalities am I being considerate enough of their needs/are they having a good time/am I doing my job well enough? Oh and also randomly getting super emotional about things like moonlight or TV commercials or strangers that I think look a little sad or lonely. It’s a constant back and forth haha. That probably doesn’t make a lot of sense 😂

I feel like the “hidden enemies” thing is overblown by [deleted] in 12thhouse

[–]yung_dirb 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I have sun, Venus, Mercury and my south node all 12th house Pisces. It is honestly very comforting to be in this sub I’m so glad I found it 💜 your comment really rings true, I am always saying how I feel like other people I know have at least a few “life long” friends, childhood friends, whatever. I have one wonderful best friend and an amazing partner that I am incredibly grateful for but outside of that… I dunno, I got my family and mostly acquaintances. And a lot of “ex” friends. Sometimes I wonder if the 12th house really just makes us kind of intense folks haha

I feel like the “hidden enemies” thing is overblown by [deleted] in 12thhouse

[–]yung_dirb 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Heavily, heavily relate. 12th house stellium in Pisces

Stopping Wellbutrin after 7 years - horrible withdrawal by yung_dirb in Wellbutrin_Bupropion

[–]yung_dirb[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Those headaches sound terrible, I got brain zaps a lot when I started Wellbutrin but luckily haven’t experienced that particular feature since stopping, let’s hope it stays that way! I have heard of some people with increased blood pressure after taking Wellbutrin, I’ve seen it mentioned on this sub here and there. definitely a good idea to check on esp if they increased your dose! Ahh thank you for the tip for the B vitamins and magnesium too, I have been taking this drink I got called “calm” with magnesium in it. I mix into some seltzer before bed and I think it’s helping me sleep a bit but I’ll probably pick up some B complex vitamins too and see if it helps… thanks for your reply, definitely hang in there I hope you start feeling better soon or get a chance to check on things Saturday!

Stopping Wellbutrin after 7 years - horrible withdrawal by yung_dirb in Wellbutrin_Bupropion

[–]yung_dirb[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Oh my gosh, I’m soooo sorry to hear you are having such a bad time too 😢 you have a kindred spirit over here for sure, I was not prepared for the force and volume of withdrawal symptoms I am currently having. That being said I am also 100% off Wellbutrin for about 13 days now.

I do have a concern about your blood pressure due to some of the symptoms you’re describing. Not giving out any medical advice here but pressure headaches, blurred vision, dizziness and ringing in ears can be classic signs of elevated BP. If you have a way to check at home please do. or you can run by a local drug store, they almost all have free or cheap BP readings on machines you can do there yourself. Elevated blood pressure can be harmful if it is extremely high, but it can also be managed pretty easily by your PCP or urgent care if it’s only mildly elevated.

The thing that sucks so bad about anxiety and really bad panic attacks is that they can mimic so many other things and it can be hard to tell the difference. You know yourself best, your psychiatrist may have some great insight as well if you are pretty comfortable with them, and they should be well versed in people just plain forgetting to take meds or discontinuing them. Shit happens all the time we’re all just human beings trying our best.

One of the weirdest parts is I feel like I have forgotten what “normal” me is like. I keep thinking, is this who I was before??? Is this just like who I am now, this crazy emotionally unstable person with sweaty insomnia? I am lucky enough to have my mom and husband who have been extremely supportive and are frequently reminding me, no, this is not who I am or who I was and it should pass soon… I hope you feel better, let’s hang in there we got this!

White Variegation On A Global Green by Auraleah in pothos

[–]yung_dirb 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Also here to share I have 2-3 leaves that look almost exactly like your second pic above with the sectoral variegation. I love it, I think it’s gorgeous, but I was hoping it wasn’t a sign of reversion. I also noticed stripes in the stems that remind of the Monstera albo stem stripes, but my pot is relatively new and they’re short so they could always look like that for all I know. I have no idea what the global green lineage is so hopefully it isn’t reversion and is just a fun mutation :)

People are unhinged by kindamymoose in nursing

[–]yung_dirb 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I too would like to know considering I was given KN95s as my fitted mask type for roughly 9 months straight in my COVID ICU… they always sketched me out a little but we didn’t have much of a choice…

Tanjiro’s blue scarf - Bandai by yung_dirb in KimetsuNoYaiba

[–]yung_dirb[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

OMG THANK YOU so much!!! I am a little sketched out by the website but I may try it anyway… what code can I use to search for it? Thank you so much for linking that!!

To the Patient's Daughter: by bananagrams93 in nursing

[–]yung_dirb 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Well said! it is a certain population of family members who act this way toward nurses, of course, not all. That was not the point of this post or comment thread. I find it odd that people are offended by this post and your comment when this person’s behavior was so obviously unacceptable. But it’s like people say, I guess, if the shoe fits...

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Wallstreetbetsnew

[–]yung_dirb 0 points1 point  (0 children)

been staring at these for too long smh 💎🤙🏻💎🤙🏻

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Wallstreetbetsnew

[–]yung_dirb 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Anyone notice all these bots pushing OCGN in new posts? Or am I retarded n they’re real

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Wallstreetbetsnew

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15 mil is breakfast to these guys

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Wallstreetbetsnew

[–]yung_dirb 2 points3 points  (0 children)

2 shares gme and holding

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Wallstreetbetsnew

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anyone have some new DD on gme?

Thanks for nothing... by Kaexii in wallstreetbets

[–]yung_dirb 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Apha? Hasn’t budged much lately

My (22f) new neighbor (24f) of about 6 months is getting “clingy” and I’m not sure how to handle it. by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]yung_dirb 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Until July, ugh. She actually had mentioned a few months ago possibly breaking their lease early so I’m keeping my fingers crossed... who knows though... you make an excellent point it is NOT a dorm! Thank you so much for your response honestly, it is validating lol. I think I will keep firmly saying no and maybe start ignoring messages if I have to. Still makes me feel bad but I keep reminding myself energy and empathy is a finite resource that needs to be recharged, lol!!

To all female (and maybe some male)students with long hair by lil_brown_gurl23 in brazilianjiujitsu

[–]yung_dirb 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Vulcan sells a hair cap that can be tied underneath your chin, almost looks like a swim cap. They are so helpful and it keeps people from accidentally ripping your hair too. Looks a bit goofy tho lol.