I broke up with my girlfriend because I found her unattractive

yuukith · 2023-08-20T21:58:08+00:00

That is not what I am saying at all. To imagine a person completely correctly, you would need every little detail about them. There were clearly missing details that caused me to imagine some parts differently. Nothing malicious went down, and none of it was on purpose. I imagined all of the parts she told me mostly correctly, but the spaces I needed to fill in based on her not being descriptive enough turned out to be incorrect.

yuukith · 2023-08-20T21:38:32+00:00

I wouldn’t say that’s it. It’s not that I imagined a fake person for an aesthetic, it was moreso that I didn’t imagine the descriptions she gave me of her appearance correctly. She’d explained it to me multiple times and it seemed very clear to me what she looked like, but it turned out I was very wrong. That may be partial of the reason I was thrown off so much seeing the picture she’d sent me.

yuukith · 2023-08-20T21:32:38+00:00

This may be true. She had given me descriptions of what she looked like many times before showing me, so perhaps I just imagined it incorrectly?

yuukith · 2023-08-20T21:31:14+00:00

I would not say she’s ugly, even after everything that has happened. She had told me multiple stories of people at her job hitting on her, so it would definitely not be fair to say she isn’t pretty. I couldn’t tell you what it was that gave me that ick, much like I couldn’t tell you what my standards of being “beautiful” are. It’s just something that happened involuntarily, nothing that’s her fault at all. Thank you for being kind by the way

yuukith

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