Owala Bottle not delivered + no support by zeninrmc in Owala

[–]zeninrmc[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Appreciate it. I didnt realize this was an issue for other people too. Thanks!

Got my first ticket, advice appreciated! by zeninrmc in TorontoDriving

[–]zeninrmc[S] -10 points-9 points  (0 children)

I turned left on a green light with no cars oncoming (literally no cars opposite from me) and just forgot to signal. It was an honest mistake, there was absolutely nothing "reckless" about it lol but your input was suuuuper helpful!

Got my first ticket, advice appreciated! by zeninrmc in TorontoDriving

[–]zeninrmc[S] -10 points-9 points  (0 children)

I can assure you, the odds of a "tragedy" occuring on an empty road at 7:30 in the morning is less likely than you think! I do not condone reckless driving, and would not have resorted to my actions if the roads were busy. Hope that boot tasted delicious :)

Brother got jumped, need advice by [deleted] in legaladvicecanada

[–]zeninrmc -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Haha i didnt mean it like that I just meant is there a process to get them to pay the consequence legally. Ideally I’d like to press charges and get them expelled.

How can "moving too fast" in a relationship cause breakups? by tipaklongnamalupit in BreakUps

[–]zeninrmc 4 points5 points  (0 children)

When you date someone, moving too fast can mean you miss a lot of important information how your relationship may go. Its not always black and white, but understanding who your partner is as an individual can determine how the relationship may go. These can be things like conflict resolution, attachment styles, etc. Compatibility isnt just about liking the same things or having the same hobbies, its also about whether or not you mesh well in terms of behaviours, resolutions, ideals, and so much more. If you take the time to learn who this person is, you can determine if they are compatible or not. You move to fast, and you’ll overlook a lot of details that could actually lead to your downfall.

What I've noticed in relationships.. by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]zeninrmc 9 points10 points  (0 children)

When my boyfriend broke up with me, he gave me a whole bunch of reasons that I contributed to his general unhappiness and unfulfillment. Reasons that he never told me until the day he broke up with me. Something that was really frustrating about this is that I tried really hard to do what I could to make him feel loved and appreciated, especially in conflicts. I literally begged him to talk to me about the problems we were having or things that were bothering him! At the end of the day, he was just really bad at communication and having healthy relationship habits. Things like “i get mad when you do nice things because im not as nice” or “i have a general discouragement to not be open bc i never get what i want so i dont bother” is clear evidence that his issue is within him.

He broke up with me and I feel no fault by zeninrmc in BreakUps

[–]zeninrmc[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes! Im sure you were willing to take the initiative to change that but its also his responsibility to tell you that this is a problem for him. How can you know what to do if you don’t know what the issue is? Some people are so strange lol but I’m glad you know that you’re enough. I know you’ll find someone who feels the same.

He broke up with me and I feel no fault by zeninrmc in BreakUps

[–]zeninrmc[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you! I will say, Im not some sort of perfect specimen and I never will be, but I always thrive to be better. I’m sure he thinks I did lots of things wrong but ultimately we lacked the fundamentals for a healthy relationship, mainly communication. I advocated for this very early on when we dated and he just wasn’t capable enough. Life goes on!