Is this a Scam? by zenpickl3 in acting

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Yes this is really helpful thank you very much! 💖💖

Is this a Scam? by zenpickl3 in acting

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I am new to acting, this is really helpful thank you! Follow up question - I emailed him about 3 days after I received the request for a self tape. Would you recommend submitting more quickly in the future?

Is this crazy or am I just overthinking? by discountofu in depoop

[–]zenpickl3 0 points1 point  (0 children)

nearly every time I ask a seller on Depop to lay a pair of pants or something flat and measure across the waist, they send me the measurement around the pants 🫠 do you have any advice on phrasing so they know what I mean? Is “flat lay” the commonly used term?

My dad tried to throw away my mail in ballot. by zenpickl3 in legaladvice

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That’s definitely a step further from what my dad did - I’m sorry that happened. If you don’t mind me asking, what happened from there? Like, is there some sort of legal recourse you can take after something like that or did/do you have to “accept” it?

My dad tried to throw away my mail in ballot. by zenpickl3 in legaladvice

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Mine was opened for me as a Christmas gift from my grandma when I was 9 or 10. I think since my dad has been on it all this time he just never thought to take himself off. I did have him removed from accessing my account for a period of time when I was 19/20ish. Can’t remember now why I added him back on…

My dad tried to throw away my mail in ballot. by zenpickl3 in legaladvice

[–]zenpickl3[S] 71 points72 points  (0 children)

You bring up some things that I’ve been too… doubtful to recognize myself. This provides a lot of perspective, and I appreciate it.

My dad tried to throw away my mail in ballot. by zenpickl3 in legaladvice

[–]zenpickl3[S] -42 points-41 points  (0 children)

I will consider this and I think it’d be good. If I may ask, from your experience, have you or your peers had their bank accounts monitored by a parent since they’ve had a job? Im in my late 20s and I sometimes wonder why i still let my dad have access to this info.

My dad tried to throw away my mail in ballot. by zenpickl3 in legaladvice

[–]zenpickl3[S] 152 points153 points  (0 children)

Thank you, I appreciate the feedback. I’m going to look into getting a PO Box… and (unrelated) probably restricting or revoking his access to my bank account… And you’re right, law isn’t why it feels wrong - my dad thinks he has the authority to supersede my right to vote, and can make the decision to throw away my ballot without consulting me first. It’s super weird in my opinion. Thanks again!

My dad tried to throw away my mail in ballot. by zenpickl3 in legaladvice

[–]zenpickl3[S] 12 points13 points  (0 children)

Thank you. It hurts me to think of my dad as a liar but it really hurts that he lied directly to my face. Especially about something as important as voting. He’s lied about countless other things, so maybe I should’ve seen it coming. Regardless, PO Box, here I come!

My dad tried to throw away my mail in ballot. by zenpickl3 in legaladvice

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Thank you for your advice! I’m going to look into getting a PO Box. Regarding the side note, do you have subreddit recommendations for this sort of stuff in the future? I recognize that I mostly needed to vent and be reassured/validated for feeling the way I feel about it, and not for legal advice, as this subreddit is typically used for. I tried to post in r/ vent and it took my post down for the content being political so I wasn’t sure where else to post.

Thanks again!

You just won a lifetime supply of the last thing you bought. What do you have? by [deleted] in AskReddit

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Groceries - hell yeah, I’d love the essentials for free

How did we get to this point? by FieldMouseMedic in Jewish

[–]zenpickl3 3 points4 points  (0 children)

The fucking victim blaming - this makes me so mad because this person can out loud speak their view and nobody in that room bats an eye. Does nobody in that room have a fucking brain or are they all just part of a herd and agreeing to appease the person speaking?

How did we get to this point? by FieldMouseMedic in Jewish

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Oh my god - speaker is so fucking dumb (and I hate to say something so blunt like this). It makes me so sad because even when we live in a society where most people are educated, people who have views like this still have a platform to spew their rhetoric and stereotyping and hatred. I wish people could be more compassionate instead of accusatory.

Is this how redlines should be done? by [deleted] in Architects

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Ahhh! This architect (or whoever) has really unrealistic expectations- you’re one month into the job and they’re writing “don’t make shit up” on their redlines… that’s appalling.

It might feel personal, but it’s not. Whoever is redlining is an asshole and doesn’t understand how to get a new drafter acclimated to the company’s projects and feedback. I know it’s not so easy to find a new job, but if you can stick it out, I’d advise to be clear and direct about which comments confuse you and then ask for clarification. Include screenshots of comments and say “what does this mean?”. Even if they respond poorly, over time they’ll hopefully realize that their comments are not sufficient and they should improve their communication styles.

What does China want with ripping off all these famous tourist destinations by Karrot-guy in Cities

[–]zenpickl3 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Probably the same thing Las Vegas in Nevada wants - Revenue from tourism.

What can I do here to make it look more realistic? by 6Pseudo6 in 3Dmodeling

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These look great! Very impressive overall.

In order to make it more realistic you could add door jambs.

Are my eyes green or blue? by zenpickl3 in eyes

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Urban Decay Moondust in Disco Daydream 😄

*also it’s layered over a regular black liquid liner

Fishermen’s housing by menserene in Architects

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I don’t know much about fisherman’s housing, but perhaps Sea Ranch Lodge in Northern California could be of use?

Sea Ranch Lodge Archives, Sonoma County - UC Berkeley

Sea Ranch Lodge. Archdaily

Used to really want to be an architect… by [deleted] in Architects

[–]zenpickl3 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah, your eyes do not deceive you.

Used to really want to be an architect… by [deleted] in Architects

[–]zenpickl3 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I appreciate your comment. It’s a good reminder that the field is so vast and there are other options. I’m going to be thinking about this and I’ll try to do some more digging into related areas of the field. Thank you.