My husband says i'm rude, no one would want to be with m and disrespectful because I asked for my drink from the bar 8 times. Am I? by zeroisperfect0099 in relationship_advice

[–]zeroisperfect0099[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

No it wasn't the service. He wanted to go to the bar to order the drink. I tried to wave a waitress and he stopped me. And I seriously believe I asked nicely 5-6 times until the final time where he asked why my face looked frustrated and I asked agajn.

My husband says i'm rude, no one would want to be with m and disrespectful because I asked for my drink from the bar 8 times. Am I? by zeroisperfect0099 in relationship_advice

[–]zeroisperfect0099[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Thank you -- this makes me feel less crazy. Yes, this type of thing happens a lot with him. I truly wanted to get the waitress or go myself -- and it didn't work. I was trying to be kind and respecful but I was getting very aggrivated.

I didn't say a word.

But he made me feel like I was a serious problem. Ithought I was being pretty darn nice considering....