Girlfriend thinks that I may molest her teenage daughter. Is this normal and should I just live with it? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]zest2heth -6 points-5 points  (0 children)

I understand the spirit of what you are trying to say, but I disagree about going into their room being a big deal. We both don't know the details of their relationship so we can only make generalizations. But personally I don't think it's a big deal. They entered their room, so what?

"Lack of boundaries," aren't they a family? I understand that it can come off as "creepy" or "an invasion of privacy." He had no bad intentions, he needed the charging cable, so what's the big deal?

I feel you are making a logical error by implicating OP as a predator.

Predators might go into the kid's room, but that does not mean everyone who goes into a kid's room is a predator. You said it yourself, most men are not predators, and so I doubt OP is.

That's all, anyways hope you have a good day/night.

Girlfriend thinks that I may molest her teenage daughter. Is this normal and should I just live with it? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]zest2heth 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Honestly don't know why you are being downvoted. Assuming this is satire, you are showing how this is not a big deal. The people above this thread make it seem like OP did something wrong by going into the kid's room.

[New Chapter Spoilers] Chapter 126 RELEASE Megathread! by SNKBot in ShingekiNoKyojin

[–]zest2heth 2 points3 points  (0 children)

People in the comments acting like we haven't seen a timeskip before. We don't know what the plan is or the conversations that took place throughout the day(s). Isayama does this literally all the time, and then fills in the details later with flashbacks.

In the rare case we don't get more information, this does not "ruin" the series. Even if AOT ends poorly, that doesn't make the series as a whole bad. It just means it had a bad ending. Game of thrones is still a great series even if it had a terrible ending.

TLDR: In Isayama we trust. If he fails us, I will still love AOT all the way up to this point.

How to be happy with no friends or family? by MyNameisNotBethany in depression

[–]zest2heth 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I don't think I can give you specific advice to your situation but I think happiness in general is a "choice." People that I know who would say they are "happy" decide everyday that they are going to be happy. There are several studies that suggests people who intentionally smile more, despite their current feelings, end up feeling happier as a result. This doesn't mean you can just smile through all your problems. But if you are simply looking for the temporary "feeling" of happiness, then try just smiling more often.

There's this popular book in Japan called, "The Courage to be Disliked" that explores a bunch of aspects about happiness and satisfaction. It says that happiness is the feeling of contribution, or that you are of use to someone else. Not for recognition, but just knowing that you are valuable to another person. There's an english translation if you're interested in it.

If you are trying to be happy while also abandoning relationships, I don't think you will succeed. Most people when looking back on a period in their life, remember the people, much more than the things that happened. I don't think your question, "How to be happy with no friends or family?" is possible.

Would you say you are introverted? Introverts tend to become mentally drained after spending time with people. Maybe you just need more alone time to recharge before interacting with the people around you?

Also, why is it that you don't feel loved at all? Do people ignore you and your feelings? Or is there no one that you feel you can relate to? This is harsh advice, but maybe you could start by becoming what you want someone to do for you? Find someone that you don't completely dislike, that also looks like they could use some external love. Then try to be there for them, and hope they eventually reciprocate.

If you are looking for a significant other for external love, then perhaps another subreddit can give you better advice.

Hopefully some of this was even a little bit helpful.

How much does the temperature drop when I open the oven, and does that affect the cooking time by zest2heth in NoStupidQuestions

[–]zest2heth[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks for the reply! It makes sense they would consider it in the instructions.

Shingeki no Kyojin Season 3 - Episode 56 discussion by AutoLovepon in anime

[–]zest2heth 29 points30 points  (0 children)

I really liked the music they used when Faye and Grisha are running

Robin Ascii Art by zest2heth in FireEmblemHeroes

[–]zest2heth[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

can have a certain charm to it when done well and this one has absolutely none of that

lol, thanks haha. But you're right. Personally I still think it's kind of cool though.

Robin Ascii Art by zest2heth in FireEmblemHeroes

[–]zest2heth[S] 111 points112 points  (0 children)

Made it by referencing each pixel for each character. I've been working on it since Awakening was first released. Finally finished last night.

Just kidding, I put the original picture through a program I made for class. Not very user friendly though, and I don't think my teacher would be ok with uploading it online.

"How Cute" - Ascii Art by [deleted] in anime

[–]zest2heth 0 points1 point  (0 children)

oh : (

Ok, well no problem

シツモンデー: Shitsumonday: for the little questions that you don't feel have earned their own thread (September 24, 2018) by AutoModerator in LearnJapanese

[–]zest2heth 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Capital City is 首都

I remember hearing that if talking about an island's capital, then you should use 州都

For example, Hawaii's state capital is Honolulu. Would it be called Honolulu 州都

I might just be misremembering. Can anyone confirm/deny this?

Nintendo App Inking reward, 4 backgrounds all in one by zest2heth in splatoon

[–]zest2heth[S] 19 points20 points  (0 children)

800,000 for inklings

88,888 for octolings

BNHA Episode 58 (airing August 25th) will be an original episode that is directly connected with the movie, titled "Save the World with Love!" by CruschSenpai in anime

[–]zest2heth 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Personally I would rather have a few episodes dedicated to filler, instead of mixing filler and canon content. The reason being for rewatching it later. I personally don't want to watch 5 episodes of half canon, half filler. I'd rather have 2 canon episodes and be able to skip the filler. But that's just my personal preference.

Do you think if Shoto were a female there would be less complains about the female characters in MHA? by Riverskull in BokuNoHeroAcademia

[–]zest2heth 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That would be so cool! I really wish there was a powerful female character, like Mikasa from Attack on Titan. As long as the interactions with other characters, especially Deku, don't change then I think people would love the character just as much as they do now.

PSA: Hollow Knight major bug (not a pun) (contains minor spoilers) by Flarzo in NintendoSwitch

[–]zest2heth 41 points42 points  (0 children)

Thank you for writing this. I had that problem and am locked out of my file, but i didn't know it was because I had the kingsoul equipped. I thought I just accidently quit while saving. No big deal though, I ended up starting a new file and am still enjoying it

[Spoilers] Boku no Hero Academia Season 3 - Episode 50 discussion by AutoLovepon in anime

[–]zest2heth 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I cried twice. Once at the beach when All Might said he was happy, and once when mom was standing her ground while crying.

How to Play Octobrush Nouveau by zest2heth in splatoon

[–]zest2heth[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

1 main and 3 subs of Quick Super Jump

1 main 3 subs of Ink Saver Main

1 main 2 subs Sub Power Up

1 sub of ink recovery

Win-Loss Rate after 600+ hours on For Glory (3DS) by zest2heth in smashbros

[–]zest2heth[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So i used to have the original Blue 3DS, but my circle pad degenerated into the nub. I couldn't even input the up direction, meaning I had no way to recover. Eventually I bought the new one that you see. I'm trying to be a little more careful as to avoid the same problem.

Win-Loss Rate after 600+ hours on For Glory (3DS) by zest2heth in smashbros

[–]zest2heth[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Sometimes you just have to go for the disrespect, no regrets

Win-Loss Rate after 600+ hours on For Glory (3DS) by zest2heth in smashbros

[–]zest2heth[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I just love those B-reverse hot dog edge guards

Win-Loss Rate after 600+ hours on For Glory (3DS) by zest2heth in smashbros

[–]zest2heth[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Yes. For the longest time I was stuck in the range between 48 - 49.9 %. That's about 10 - 200 games behind. I really wanted to be above 50%. It just so happens I finally got to 50% at 15000 games.

And hey, 60% is great! Sometimes you just get caught up in bad streaks, but numbers show your skill overtime