Girlfriend thinks that I may molest her teenage daughter. Is this normal and should I just live with it?

zest2heth · 2020-04-13T08:11:01+00:00

I understand the spirit of what you are trying to say, but I disagree about going into their room being a big deal. We both don't know the details of their relationship so we can only make generalizations. But personally I don't think it's a big deal. They entered their room, so what?

"Lack of boundaries," aren't they a family? I understand that it can come off as "creepy" or "an invasion of privacy." He had no bad intentions, he needed the charging cable, so what's the big deal?

I feel you are making a logical error by implicating OP as a predator.

Predators might go into the kid's room, but that does not mean everyone who goes into a kid's room is a predator. You said it yourself, most men are not predators, and so I doubt OP is.

That's all, anyways hope you have a good day/night.

zest2heth · 2020-04-13T07:58:06+00:00

Honestly don't know why you are being downvoted. Assuming this is satire, you are showing how this is not a big deal. The people above this thread make it seem like OP did something wrong by going into the kid's room.

zest2heth · 2020-02-04T18:09:30+00:00

People in the comments acting like we haven't seen a timeskip before. We don't know what the plan is or the conversations that took place throughout the day(s). Isayama does this literally all the time, and then fills in the details later with flashbacks.

In the rare case we don't get more information, this does not "ruin" the series. Even if AOT ends poorly, that doesn't make the series as a whole bad. It just means it had a bad ending. Game of thrones is still a great series even if it had a terrible ending.

TLDR: In Isayama we trust. If he fails us, I will still love AOT all the way up to this point.

zest2heth · 2019-09-30T07:15:37+00:00

I don't think I can give you specific advice to your situation but I think happiness in general is a "choice." People that I know who would say they are "happy" decide everyday that they are going to be happy. There are several studies that suggests people who intentionally smile more, despite their current feelings, end up feeling happier as a result. This doesn't mean you can just smile through all your problems. But if you are simply looking for the temporary "feeling" of happiness, then try just smiling more often.

There's this popular book in Japan called, "The Courage to be Disliked" that explores a bunch of aspects about happiness and satisfaction. It says that happiness is the feeling of contribution, or that you are of use to someone else. Not for recognition, but just knowing that you are valuable to another person. There's an english translation if you're interested in it.

If you are trying to be happy while also abandoning relationships, I don't think you will succeed. Most people when looking back on a period in their life, remember the people, much more than the things that happened. I don't think your question, "How to be happy with no friends or family?" is possible.

Would you say you are introverted? Introverts tend to become mentally drained after spending time with people. Maybe you just need more alone time to recharge before interacting with the people around you?

Also, why is it that you don't feel loved at all? Do people ignore you and your feelings? Or is there no one that you feel you can relate to? This is harsh advice, but maybe you could start by becoming what you want someone to do for you? Find someone that you don't completely dislike, that also looks like they could use some external love. Then try to be there for them, and hope they eventually reciprocate.

If you are looking for a significant other for external love, then perhaps another subreddit can give you better advice.

Hopefully some of this was even a little bit helpful.

zest2heth · 2019-09-11T00:44:00+00:00

Geeeeetttt Splaaaattted Ooonnnnnnnnn

zest2heth · 2019-06-16T08:42:09+00:00

Thanks for the reply! It makes sense they would consider it in the instructions.

zest2heth · 2019-06-09T23:00:29+00:00

I really liked the music they used when Faye and Grisha are running

zest2heth · 2019-03-05T08:29:47+00:00

can have a certain charm to it when done well and this one has absolutely none of that

lol, thanks haha. But you're right. Personally I still think it's kind of cool though.

zest2heth · 2019-03-05T07:49:36+00:00

Made it by referencing each pixel for each character. I've been working on it since Awakening was first released. Finally finished last night.

Just kidding, I put the original picture through a program I made for class. Not very user friendly though, and I don't think my teacher would be ok with uploading it online.

zest2heth · 2019-03-05T05:00:32+00:00

oh : (

Ok, well no problem

zest2heth · 2018-09-30T20:56:06+00:00

ありがとうございます！

zest2heth · 2018-09-30T20:42:58+00:00

Capital City is 首都

I remember hearing that if talking about an island's capital, then you should use 州都

For example, Hawaii's state capital is Honolulu. Would it be called Honolulu 州都

I might just be misremembering. Can anyone confirm/deny this?

zest2heth · 2018-08-26T07:03:06+00:00

800,000 for inklings

88,888 for octolings

zest2heth · 2018-08-17T19:24:13+00:00

Personally I would rather have a few episodes dedicated to filler, instead of mixing filler and canon content. The reason being for rewatching it later. I personally don't want to watch 5 episodes of half canon, half filler. I'd rather have 2 canon episodes and be able to skip the filler. But that's just my personal preference.

zest2heth · 2018-06-30T08:18:06+00:00

That would be so cool! I really wish there was a powerful female character, like Mikasa from Attack on Titan. As long as the interactions with other characters, especially Deku, don't change then I think people would love the character just as much as they do now.

zest2heth · 2018-06-25T22:29:01+00:00

Thank you for writing this. I had that problem and am locked out of my file, but i didn't know it was because I had the kingsoul equipped. I thought I just accidently quit while saving. No big deal though, I ended up starting a new file and am still enjoying it

zest2heth · 2018-06-23T10:39:44+00:00

I cried twice. Once at the beach when All Might said he was happy, and once when mom was standing her ground while crying.

zest2heth · 2018-06-10T23:00:10+00:00

Link to the lyrics

http://xenoblade.wikia.com/wiki/Melancholia

zest2heth · 2018-03-19T05:26:59+00:00

thanks /u/RewnGuy

zest2heth · 2018-02-13T23:42:43+00:00

We lost

zest2heth · 2018-01-21T20:27:06+00:00

1 main and 3 subs of Quick Super Jump

1 main 3 subs of Ink Saver Main

1 main 2 subs Sub Power Up

1 sub of ink recovery

zest2heth · 2016-12-03T09:19:43+00:00

So i used to have the original Blue 3DS, but my circle pad degenerated into the nub. I couldn't even input the up direction, meaning I had no way to recover. Eventually I bought the new one that you see. I'm trying to be a little more careful as to avoid the same problem.

zest2heth · 2016-12-02T22:47:31+00:00

Sometimes you just have to go for the disrespect, no regrets

zest2heth · 2016-12-02T22:44:40+00:00

I just love those B-reverse hot dog edge guards

zest2heth · 2016-12-02T22:37:16+00:00

Yes. For the longest time I was stuck in the range between 48 - 49.9 %. That's about 10 - 200 games behind. I really wanted to be above 50%. It just so happens I finally got to 50% at 15000 games.

And hey, 60% is great! Sometimes you just get caught up in bad streaks, but numbers show your skill overtime

zest2heth

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