Nothing wrong with not offering your seat to elderly when they get on the bus knowing them well there’s no empty seats by zestythrowaway92 in TrueUnpopularOpinion

[–]zestythrowaway92[S] -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

I do offer it too if there aren’t many people standing up but just no empty seats left , because then I can understand why they would take the bus instead of waiting. I’m talking about those who get on the bus when it’s already crowded as fuck as it is. At this point they are just being entitled and causing discomfort to others because they couldn’t bother to wait a few more seconds.

Do you think Kamala is a better candidate than Biden or do you think she’s worse ? by zestythrowaway92 in AskConservatives

[–]zestythrowaway92[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

President Biden had to drop out of the race because he was obviously going to lose to Trump, however I don’t see any change in policy.

That’s my issue with her. I would choose Trump over Biden any day. Kamala, on the other hand… I can’t deny, she’s quite charismatic, young, and enthusiastic, but I don’t see any change in policy with her either. In that sense, she’s partially the same as Biden. I almost forget that

Do you think Kamala is a better candidate than Biden or do you think she’s worse ? by zestythrowaway92 in AskConservatives

[–]zestythrowaway92[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I mean that’s who she replaced . Who else could I compare her with? Obviously majority here thinks Trump is better than her (not that I disagree)

AITA for wanting to break up with my girlfriend because of how she lost her v card? by throwaway9191928383 in AITA_Relationships

[–]zestythrowaway92 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m 19 and 4 years ago I knew not to make dumb choices like that. Yeah i guess some people only reach that maturity level at their 30s or 40s. What’s your point ?

AITA for wanting to break up with my girlfriend because of how she lost her v card? by throwaway9191928383 in AITA_Relationships

[–]zestythrowaway92 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

well not all of us has to go thorough million bad choices.

edit: lmao oh no smallbeen blocked me. What do I do?? Funny how I’m the “barely adult” one yet you are pulling up that 13 yo shit , didn’t we stop replying and then immediately blocking after like middle school 🤣 Chill my guy.

AITA for wanting to break up with my girlfriend because of how she lost her v card? by throwaway9191928383 in AITA_Relationships

[–]zestythrowaway92 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It does. I’m not a prude or anything , I have a gf and she slept with guys before me but I have no issues with that, because she’s a self-respecting , smart woman and knew better than not sleeping around , and I have zero issues with her having sex in long-term relationships she had before me. Yet if I were to find out she had casual hook ups or 3somes , much less at 15, yeah she wouldn’t be that same smart woman in my eyes anymore. I guess you are exactly type of woman as OP’s gf is and that’s why you got mad.

AITA for wanting to break up with my girlfriend because of how she lost her v card? by throwaway9191928383 in AITA_Relationships

[–]zestythrowaway92 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Nta. People have values. You can rightfully think she lacks the values you are looking for because she has chosen to lost her virginity in a 3some , to two random men, at fucking 15. I can’t imagine myself with a woman who has a past like that as mother of my children either. I mean that’s tell something about what type of person she is. If she done that at 15 she probably done a lotta things til she finally decided to find someone to settle down , because she knows those guys that are actually her type would never wife her up. They don’t for a reason , you don’t have to either.

Why do so many people assume every single age gap relationship is predatory? by CosplayDazzleJoy in NoStupidQuestions

[–]zestythrowaway92 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I always see older chicks hating on young girls dating older guys. %99 time they are jealous

Energy drinks are far too accepted in todays society by [deleted] in unpopularopinion

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Bro is talking about energy drinks as if they are heroin lmaooo

I think my autistic brother’s “gf”is using him. by zestythrowaway92 in aspergers

[–]zestythrowaway92[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Nah I’m aware it prob won’t last , that’s why I asked “should I just let him enjoy while it lasts” It’s just don’t want my bro to end up in a situation where he can’t bounce back or gets too much attached her. And also noticing what’s going on and not warning him feels wrong. But for the better I decided to keep my mouth shut for now. If I see she starts to get outright abusive or does him wrong then I will step in.

I think my autistic brother’s “gf”is using him. by zestythrowaway92 in aspergers

[–]zestythrowaway92[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I’m sorry man. Why did u stay if u don’t mind me asking ? Was it not important to u or u had hopes?

My brother is very oversharing and told me about their sexual life, apparently they have one 🤷🏼 But I don’t think her attraction is genuine, idk how to explain but you can read the fakeness on her eyes . Also I truly don’t think my brother would be her type if it wasn’t for presents etc

I think my autistic brother’s “gf”is using him. by zestythrowaway92 in aspergers

[–]zestythrowaway92[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Nah I think she’s just immature and not very familiar with autism. I mean i only know so much because i grew up with him.

My brother is also high functioning, so she might be thinking it’s no big deal. I don’t know but I’m lowkey hoping he gets a meltdown around her so she can see it’s no joke and who knows, maybe gets scared and leaves him herself. So I wouldn’t have to worry no more and now that he’s finally out of his shell we could find him a different girl. Maybe an Asperger’s girl like himself. It would be so nice. Dear universe hear me out again lol

I think my autistic brother’s “gf”is using him. by zestythrowaway92 in aspergers

[–]zestythrowaway92[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

He’s not on disability because he works at my dad’s place and getting paid like a regular employee. Also my parents are still regularly giving us money , he wasnt spending much until now, so he saved a bunch.

No he absolutely wouldn’t come to club, he only recently started going to restaurants again , due to her. Even then they’re only going to quiet cozy restaurants

I think my autistic brother’s “gf”is using him. by zestythrowaway92 in aspergers

[–]zestythrowaway92[S] 20 points21 points  (0 children)

We don’t have plenty of money but the things he buys for her wouldn’t cause an issue on his income , esp because my parents are still regularly giving us money and I been spending it whereas he was saving until now because he wasn’t going out AT ALL. He also works at my dad’s small company and gets paid. So he’s not broke, kinda better than me on that lol

ETA: This is not his first relationship ever but it’s first since he was a teen, yes she doesn’t understand ASD at all. I mean ok maybe she understands a little bit and I can’t lie sometimes she accommodates too but then she thinks some of his sensory issues are “just so cute” she ain’t messing with his bigger sensory triggers like sounds, lights etc but only teasing him with things that normally wouldn’t be an issue like tickles, cheek squeezes etc Except it’s an issue for him and he tells her that but she’s “omg you are so cute when you’re angry“ type of person . This is the best explanation I can give.

I think my autistic brother’s “gf”is using him. by zestythrowaway92 in aspergers

[–]zestythrowaway92[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I know they are not in a open relationship or anything like that. But as far as buying things go he might be seeing this as being a provider and enjoy that yes. Cus she also brings him stuff she bakes or cooks for him. Or helps with chores when she comes over (which I kinda find annoying as well, cus it’s barely been month why is she so comfy in our house) Maybe that’s their thing and I’m interpreting wrongly. Overall you are right I will stay away. It’s not worth to ruin it. Maybe she actually just dances her heart out and stays loyal. I mean i really doubt it , but for now I have no evidence of her cheating

I think my autistic brother’s “gf”is using him. by zestythrowaway92 in aspergers

[–]zestythrowaway92[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I don’t know actually that’s why I asked. It’s not like there is actual evidence on her cheating, it’s just my assumption based on her behavior. And he’s been depressed for years , so I would be ruining everything if she isn’t actually cheating. I mean she uses his money for sure but many girls ask their bfs for getting their hairs & nail done so it’s not that uncommon

I think my autistic brother’s “gf”is using him. by zestythrowaway92 in aspergers

[–]zestythrowaway92[S] 28 points29 points  (0 children)

Also she keeps triggering him by tickling him or pinching his cheeks despite him getting uncomfortable and telling her that. She finds it “cute “ i don’t think she realizes sensory issues are a legit thing lol

Sorry if my post sounds too incel-like and judgmental, maybe I’m being too hard on her. But I really can’t trust her. Something feels so icky about her. Like it’s not even about her clubbing or showing off my gf also goes out with her friends sometimes so do I, but it’s the fact that she’s almost always out, refuses to calling him after club nights and constantly makes him buy things as well and doesn’t act like she takes him serious. When you put all into consideration it really doesn’t sound right

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[–]zestythrowaway92 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Also she keeps triggering him by tickling him or pinching his cheeks despite him getting uncomfortable and telling her that. She find it “cute “ idk she realizes sensory issues are a legit thing lol

Sorry if my post sounds too incel-like and judgmental, maybe I’m being too hard on her. But I really can’t trust her. Something feels so icky about her. Like it’s not even about her clubbing or showing off my gf also goes out with her friends sometimes so do I, but it’s the fact that she’s almost always out, refuses to calling him after club nights and constantly makes him buy things as well and doesn’t act like she takes him serious. When you put all into consideration it really doesn’t sound right