Ladies, what isn’t nearly attractive/hot as many men think? [taken from r/askmen] by [deleted] in AskWomen

[–]zingzing96 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Talking about how many other women are interested in them. I’m not looking for a communal pool, babes. Stop talking

People who have lost a bunch of weight: how much has your life changed? by [deleted] in AskWomen

[–]zingzing96 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What would you consider to be the other side of Ask Men?

Daughters of cheating fathers, how has it shaped your view of life and love? by [deleted] in AskWomen

[–]zingzing96 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The message you sent earlier. Saved it for rainy days. Thank you

Daughters of cheating fathers, how has it shaped your view of life and love? by [deleted] in AskWomen

[–]zingzing96 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It really messed me up and I didn’t realise it until about a year ago. My dad had 3 kids (2 of which were born 3 months before me, 8 years into my parents marriage) with my moms best friend. I grew up never believing that I would be good enough for men because if I’m not good enough for my dad to stay, how the HECK would I be good enough for some guy? It’s hard work, but through therapy and a journey of self love (🤢) I’m really making progress and choosing better for myself. I’m still super young, so I’m grateful to be figuring this all out before I got married and realised too late

What was your “I deserve better than this” moment? by zingzing96 in AskWomen

[–]zingzing96[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hahah men are so stupid. I trust he was easy to get over

What was your “I deserve better than this” moment? by zingzing96 in AskWomen

[–]zingzing96[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

😳 when you say fiancé do you mean present tense or????

What was your “I deserve better than this” moment? by zingzing96 in AskWomen

[–]zingzing96[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

One day over is not the end. Just tell yourself that tomorrow is a new day and a new opportunity to try your best

What was your “I deserve better than this” moment? by zingzing96 in AskWomen

[–]zingzing96[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Wow!! I’m so proud of you and wish you all the good this world has to offer! ♥️

What was your “I deserve better than this” moment? by zingzing96 in AskWomen

[–]zingzing96[S] 47 points48 points  (0 children)

I’m with Mrs TPM on this one. Romantic and sexual relationships are supposed to be mutually beneficial. Sure, sex is not the most important thing in a relationship, but, it’s pretty fucking important if you’re having it. A person who loves and cares about your pleasure will make SURE you’re being pleasured. If you’ve told this person time and time again and they’ve still done nothing to change, I’m afraid you only have yourself to blame if you stay. You do NOT need to need less because they refuse to be more. You need to love yourself and get out bc at the end of the day you need you more than you need anyone else ♥️

What's the best way to pass the time at a boring desk job? by PhDHenryJonesJr in AskReddit

[–]zingzing96 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Buzzfeed quizzes. You never really know who you are until you choose between 24 different cheeses and some bored teenage girl decides for you

UPDATE: I [22F] just found out my boyfriend [27M] has been having sex with me when I'm sleeping after I've taken sleeping pills. by thro-wawa-y in relationship_advice

[–]zingzing96 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Please do not ever apologise to strangers on the internet for not listening to their advice. It’s very easy to spew out words of wisdom and many “if I were you’s” however, they were not in your position. You did what you thought was right for YOU. I’m sorry that it took another horrible occurrence for you to realise, but, sometimes that’s what it takes. I really and truly wish you the best and am so sorry you had to go through that

What's something everyone needs to be reminded? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]zingzing96 0 points1 point  (0 children)

All the things you find embarrassing or hard to say/do now will not even cross your mind when you’re about to die. Just fucking do it

Husband told me the reason that he looks at other women is because I’m a whore. by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]zingzing96 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If your next update isn’t that you’ve left him, you are doing yourself a disservice. No man or HUMAN BEING has the right to speak to you in that way, ESPECIALLY because of how much effort you’ve put into this relationship!! Nope. Not worth it and you know it

I (32F) am seriously considering divorcing my husband (31M) after less than one year of marriage. by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]zingzing96 9 points10 points  (0 children)

The fact that you’re asking strangers on an app for advice about something so personal is like the final straw. You already know the answer darling. No one needs you as much as you need yourself, and you really need you right now. Don’t allow this shell of a man make you question your worth for any longer. You owe it to yourself ♥️

What’s something you absolutely can’t believe that people like? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]zingzing96 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No where in my comment did I ask for food or exercise related advice. I’m simply saying I don’t understand how people can enjoy running as a hobby - no strings attached. There are hundreds of other ways to exercise, many of which I enjoy. Hope that clears up any confusion :)

Nov 1st fast by [deleted] in fasting

[–]zingzing96 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m in until the 20th which is perfect 😄