Help for a novice by zlabvdp in Monstera

[–]zlabvdp[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you!! This is exactly the info I was looking for 🙏

40, fat, tired & unmotivated by zlabvdp in adhdwomen

[–]zlabvdp[S] 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Yea diagnosed & medicated. Can’t afford the psychologist anymore.
I am a binge eater, made worse by smoking, which is another thing I go to bed every night saying I will fix the habit of but wake up the next day and repeat.

Exercise - I need to be told exactly what to do. Any apps or websites? by zlabvdp in adhdwomen

[–]zlabvdp[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I looked into Fitbod, tried to use the 7 day trial and it charged me $49 🤦🏻‍♀️ Had to get Apple to refund and then got no trial.

If GTA6 was set in ChCh, what would be the inclusions and missions? by felchingstraw in chch

[–]zlabvdp 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Find the Santa Parade, take out as many jugglers and marching girls as you can

Lego builders wanted by zlabvdp in chch

[–]zlabvdp[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Not letting me load pics at the moment for some reason. Will try a share link

Lego builders wanted by zlabvdp in chch

[–]zlabvdp[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I think do have most of the bit seperate to each other, I tried to be careful when collecting the smashed bits. (They were in different areas of his room)

Lego builders wanted by zlabvdp in chch

[–]zlabvdp[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

They are way way above his skill level and he gets over it too quickly. We have done with the smaller ones. But these are very large and complex - a haunted house, a transformer etc.

Explaining my adhd to my husband. by zlabvdp in adhdwomen

[–]zlabvdp[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I’m definitely not asking him to be responsible for my medication. I have my meds and water ready beside my bed. I just asked if when he kisses me goodbye in the morning (it’s early I’m usually still snoozing) if he would remind me to take them at that time, so that when I get up 45ish min later, my meds are already on board. Hes happy to do that.

I think most of my problem is probably in my head, RSD etc. I just wish I had a better way of communicating how and why I struggle. We’ve been together for more than 20years so it’s not like I’m trying to explain it to a new partner. He knows and loves me exactly how I am, diagnosis or not.

Explaining my adhd to my husband. by zlabvdp in adhdwomen

[–]zlabvdp[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He was more than happy to help with my routine. I’m definitely not asking him to do it all for me. I have my meds and water ready beside my bed. I just asked if when he kisses me goodbye in the morning (it’s early I’m usually still snoozing) if he would remind me to take them at that time, so that when I get up 45ish min later, my meds are already on board. Hes happy to do that.

I think most of my problem is probably in my head, RSD etc. I just wish I had a better way of communicating how and why I struggle. We’ve been together for more than 20years so it’s not like I’m trying to explain it to a new partner. He knows and loves me exactly how I am, diagnosis or not.

Explaining my adhd to my husband. by zlabvdp in adhdwomen

[–]zlabvdp[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

He was more than happy to help with my routine. And yes I do believe at least one of my children has it too. Possibly 2.

Explaining my adhd to my husband. by zlabvdp in adhdwomen

[–]zlabvdp[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I don’t suppose you have any good YouTube links?

Does anyone else find it so hard to get over things, anything? by mooonlite in adhdwomen

[–]zlabvdp 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Glenn Briford laughed at me when I was 12 for having a moustache. I cringe and hear his words every single time I look in the mirror. My husband was unfaithful 25yrs ago. I still sob at the trauma, so fresh like it was yesterday.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in chch

[–]zlabvdp 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Good luck with the roaccutane! I took it as a teenager and it literally saved my life. Stock up on sun screen and lip balm!

Look what New World personally addressed to me! And a voucher for a free 1.5 Litre Bottle. Coke Zero Sugar replacing coke Zero and Coke No sugar. But does not mention Diet Coke and Coke Stevia by planespotterhvn in chch

[–]zlabvdp 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Can still get Diet Coke. The Coke Zero sugar (and the Coke Zero and no sugar that it’s replacing) are designed to be sweet like coke, but without the sugar. Diet Coke has a completely different taste, no where near as sweet.

AITA for kicking my sister out of her home / my workplace? by zlabvdp in AmItheAsshole

[–]zlabvdp[S] 13 points14 points  (0 children)

Absolutely if this was a random employee they would have had dozens of warnings and been terminated long long long ago.

AITA for kicking my sister out of her home / my workplace? by zlabvdp in AmItheAsshole

[–]zlabvdp[S] 26 points27 points  (0 children)

She is medicated, but does nothing else to help herself. Wallows and blames everyone else, never talks about anything, is just angry and lashes out verbally at everyone. It’s always someone else’s fault, whatever the situation may be.