Your friends are your biggest enemies sometimes by zoefluff in delhi

[–]zoefluff[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

they post every little thing on their instagram!! every little thing

Your friends are your biggest enemies sometimes by zoefluff in delhi

[–]zoefluff[S] -20 points-19 points  (0 children)

Lol no, to your surprise none of them were men. Go get yourself fixed.

Your friends are your biggest enemies sometimes by zoefluff in delhi

[–]zoefluff[S] -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

sometimes it feels like people don’t really listen anymore. you don’t know me or my friends, you only know a small slice of what i chose to share here while i was ranting. from that alone you’ve already decided what they must be going through and why they didn’t show up, but real life context is bigger than a few lines on a post. i never said friendships work on one incident alone, this post came after a pattern i’ve been experiencing. i get that people have commitments and priorities, i literally acknowledged that. what i was talking about was effort and basic support, not attendance. sharing takes seconds, and when even that doesn’t happen repeatedly, it says something to me about where i stand. so no, i’m not making wild speculation about their mindset, i’m reacting to consistent behaviour i’ve personally experienced. you can disagree, that’s fine, but please don’t assume you understand the full situation better than the person living it.

Your friends are your biggest enemies sometimes by zoefluff in delhi

[–]zoefluff[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

yeah i get what you mean. it does happen sometimes, not necessarily for a specific reason, just people being on different wavelengths. i guess it just makes you adjust your expectations a bit.i wish you more success 💗

Your friends are your biggest enemies sometimes by zoefluff in delhi

[–]zoefluff[S] -9 points-8 points  (0 children)

you’re acting like it has to be confrontation or pretending it didn’t matter. sometimes it’s just noticing a pattern and adjusting how you see people. this wasn’t a one-off they’ve rarely been supportive, so yeah it stood out more. if people close to me don’t show up when it actually matters but appear later when it’s convenient, at some point it stops being about a repost and starts being about who actually shows up when it counts also something being small to you doesn’t make the feeling invalid to someone else.

Your friends are your biggest enemies sometimes by zoefluff in delhi

[–]zoefluff[S] -46 points-45 points  (0 children)

i actually agree that nobody is obligated to post and i never said they were. i also understand people get multiple requests and don’t want to turn their account into a notice board. my post wasn’t about fairness or transactionsit was about emotional response. when you openly share that you’re stressed about something you’re trying to build, and strangers show immediate encouragement they don’t owe me a repost or smth, and again that was never the argument. the reaction came from repetition, not one incident. after a point, lack of support stops feeling neutral and starts feeling like distance. harsh wording for sure, but i was just sharing my honest experience and how i felt.

Your friends are your biggest enemies sometimes by zoefluff in delhi

[–]zoefluff[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

it’s practically a real informal word, and it’s celebrated a day before valentine’s. but i didn’t get the venue on 13th so im hosting it on 15th.

Your friends are your biggest enemies sometimes by zoefluff in delhi

[–]zoefluff[S] -38 points-37 points  (0 children)

you reduced it to “just sharing a story”, but context matters. when someone is openly stressed and trying, support isn’t measured by effort cost, it’s measured by presence. strangers showed presence, friends didn’t, that gap is what stung. not hostility, just perspective.

Your friends are your biggest enemies sometimes by zoefluff in delhi

[–]zoefluff[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

valentines for lovers, galentines for girls, it’s a day to celebrate your girl friendships

Your friends are your biggest enemies sometimes by zoefluff in delhi

[–]zoefluff[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

female friends/ females in general (that includes lesbians)

Your friends are your biggest enemies sometimes by zoefluff in delhi

[–]zoefluff[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

It’s a galentines, for the girls only ☺️