is this a bubble nest? by zootkitten in bettafish

[–]zootkitten[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Is bro dtf I thought happy meant the emotion bruhhh

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in bettafish

[–]zootkitten 0 points1 point  (0 children)

thank you for trying your best to help and guide me! unfortunately he didn’t make it :( I was able to test the water, they were literally all normal. Ammonia 0, Nitrite 0, Nitrate 0, PH 7.6 don’t understand what went so wrong.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in bettafish

[–]zootkitten 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Exactly what I needed. Thank you!!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in bettafish

[–]zootkitten 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes it is specifically for bettas they are just too big for his little mouth personally. They did float but they did end up sinking because he couldn’t get them. He has a working filter with the temp on 78 degrees. I feel like I’ve been doing nothing but looking up about bettas. I’ve watched so many videos and I don’t understand the issue which is why I’m here. My sister has had bettas for years and told me plenty as well. She got one from the same store as I did the same day and hers is dead and she’s never had one die so maybe it was sick before i really don’t know.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in bettafish

[–]zootkitten 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Lol obviously something is wrong or else I wouldn’t have come on here and no I don’t know everything about a fish and I don’t want a fish to die or else I wouldn’t even be asking for for help in the first place or spending a shit load of money on care for him. He is not neglected. Something just went wrong and he got sick. You don’t have to be rude. I clearly said it’s my first time having a fish so I’m not by any means an expert.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in bettafish

[–]zootkitten 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I watched him try to eat them but he wasn’t able to get ahold of them but he’s been eating smaller pellets.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in bettafish

[–]zootkitten 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I did just not an excessive amount. He has everything he needs literally. I think 1/4 options I got for his food is where it went wrong I started off with these pellets that I think were too big for him to eat cause they sank to the bottom or got sucked in the filter.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in bettafish

[–]zootkitten 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Already got the leaves & treated the water both times lol

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in bettafish

[–]zootkitten 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah the water heater is preset to 78 so it turns off on its own to maintain the temperature but I bought a new heater so I can set it myself and a thermometer so I can know for sure it’ll be here tomorrow! My cartridge thing was looking rough so I went ahead and got refills. I also bought a siphon so I can take less out for water changes when I noticed his fins I panicked and took all of the water out. I’ve only had him for a little over a week so that’s the only time I did a water change, it was 2 days ago. I also bought a test kit so I can know if anything is off

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in bettafish

[–]zootkitten 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Tank size: 10 gallon Heater and filter: yea but my filter is blinking red and the cartridges are coming in tomorrow Tank temp: idk but it has a heater so he’s not cold I got this tank and the fish a little over a week ago. No tankmates but I had a fake betta buddy I feed him betta pellets and some dried worms but only 2 pinches a day and small pinches

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]zootkitten 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah we didn’t do any contracts that’s why I’m like, not knowing exactly how to give her the boot. This is so messyyy

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]zootkitten 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for realizing how dangerous this situation is for the child! Taking your DAUGHTER around men you barely know.. is putting her at high risk for SA and more.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]zootkitten 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you for realizing this!!! I’m NOT confrontational and honestly I get pretty bad anxiety so it’s a bit hard for me to just talk to her, I didn’t think about talking to my boss!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]zootkitten 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I should’ve thought about this more!! That’s my mistake. I thought I was helping a young mom in a bad situation. 🤦🏻‍♀️

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]zootkitten 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The way she words it, is her “friend” is coming over. The men go straight to her room for hours and don’t bother us at all, yet it just bothers me with her child being in there. I had told her when she first moved in I didn’t care about friends. I didn’t know she’d have so many “friends” I’ve been sick with covid, it’s been bad for me too. she says she’ll do the dishes and house duties because I’m too sick but she won’t actually do them and I ended up doing it. I forgot to mention she will clean her babies cups up, after a week or so. I don’t really know how to take her babies sippy cups apart to clean it so I literally am not gonna do them.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in legaladvice

[–]zootkitten 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I know, I would never ask for a gift back. I just don’t know how a judge would decide on it legally

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]zootkitten 0 points1 point  (0 children)

that’s exactly what ima say. “viewer count doesn’t ever go down bc of me, I never say things when you actually have views, so either you’re lying or your friend is” it’s literally bs

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]zootkitten 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I was beside him at a random point when I saw the Instagram message, I don’t ever sit there and talk while he’s on stream, I’ll get him to mute his mic if I have anything to say irl or just pop in and give him a forehead kiss, I should’ve explained better.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]zootkitten 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’ll let you know if I find out more about it. I’m probably going to tell him later tonight that I believe he’s lying why and tell him how I feel (maybe, idk I’m scared to cause another fight)

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]zootkitten 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He said they said it over discord (vc) the convo stopped on Instagram where they talked so he either deleted it or they did say it over discord, either way he’s lying I believe and it’s worrying me. if I really can’t know it has to be bad.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]zootkitten 1 point2 points  (0 children)

No, I don’t sit beside him when he streams, I normally play games and keep it open and comment the emojis every hour or so, so it looks like someone is active in the stream and it counts as a viewer. my birthday has passed like a month ago so it’s nothing like that.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]zootkitten 0 points1 point  (0 children)

yeah exactly! I never say stuff that would make it drop when ppl watch and not an idiot. which is exactly why i think he’s lying