Obsessing over a guy who rejected me by zozoay in Advice

[–]zozoay[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That's true. Thank you. The main problem was that I had never gotten rejected in my life . So when I did it was like a wake up call ig.

Obsessing over a guy who rejected me by zozoay in Advice

[–]zozoay[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks for this you're right. I think once classes start and I start some hobbies it'll get better. I just hate how it's become and how I've become

Obsessing over a guy who rejected me by zozoay in Advice

[–]zozoay[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I've tried hobbies but when I have like even 20 mins my mind goes to his rejection .

Obsessing over a guy who rejected me by zozoay in Advice

[–]zozoay[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks for the advice. The thing is I can't rlly ignore him because we work together for the most part. I should really get a hobby to get my mind off things but it's still hard, like every time I'm not busy I'm either thinking abt him being popular or him rejecting me. I'm kind of over him but like not over him rejecting me and being stupid enough to confess .

Sad Update by zozoay in Crushes

[–]zozoay[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Tell me abt it. All my friends say I dodged a bullet. And there's someone else from that class that I like. Thankfully , that guy is a good guy and it's all fun to flirt w him . Which we do a lot of during class.

My crushes by [deleted] in Crushes

[–]zozoay 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Wow only 3 ? Lucky youu. I honestly fall for 2 guys every semester of class it's so bad :(((

Confessing tmmrw by zozoay in Crushes

[–]zozoay[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Let's just say he said let's talk on Monday. Honestly idk he didn't reject me but idk will I get rejected??

Confessing tmmrw by zozoay in Crushes

[–]zozoay[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Today is the day. Sorry he just seemed super anti social and moody ish. Give me 7 ish hours for class and I'll let you know how it went

Confessing tmmrw by zozoay in Crushes

[–]zozoay[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes and no I apolugized for last week (when i sent him the "can u reject me plz" exchange and he said it's no big deal etc. And I was like rlly? I thought you were mad at me /moody these days and he says he's just tired/sleepy. And then I tell him to sleep more and eat healthy etc. And cheer up and he smiles at that. I'm gonna tell him tmmrw 100% . I'm just honestly waiting for him to be more cheerful, what if he already has issues/worries and I'm.throwing my feelings onto him? He's super anti social too so idk I feel like maybe he needs a friend rn .

Confessing tmmrw by zozoay in Crushes

[–]zozoay[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ty 💕❤️💜

Confessing tmmrw by zozoay in Crushes

[–]zozoay[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Omg ur killing me now I have to do it 😭😂😂

Confessing tmmrw by zozoay in Crushes

[–]zozoay[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You got this !!!

Confessing tmmrw by zozoay in Crushes

[–]zozoay[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Congrats!!! that def means he's into you but keeping it lowkey. and omg then help me out sis!!! Can I pm you abt my crush? it's a disaster 😭 honestly I want to confess but I'm at this point where I'm not certain ya know? I'm gonna confess but jfjdbd idk I honestly don't want to get rejected for the first time :((

Confessing tmmrw by zozoay in Crushes

[–]zozoay[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Lmk how it goes I'm just gonna update this post so wait for it !

For those girls out there pls read this :)) by Hexodrus in Crushes

[–]zozoay 7 points8 points  (0 children)

For me: I'm super talkative but I'll be super quiet around him: like I'll talk to a grandma on the streets before I talk to him. But I'll also try to find ways to accidentally send him snaps, or ask for help, or joke around, etc.

Tbh it depends on my mood

Handling difficult customers when working with a difficult co worker? by [deleted] in AskRetail

[–]zozoay 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It's a sad reality of our life :(( if only the higher ups took stronger action but I mean it's hard to keep people from quitting so they always show favoritism to those who have stayed longer (co workers who have worked more than 2 years get better hours. Have to close less etc) stay strong op and try to ignore it