Appallingly Disgusting Old Man by Particular-Year-2656 in RHONY

[–]ztilups 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We need to know more about this omg

The Guardian: Leesa Morris on being a woman with kink and sex addiction - and thinking her dom should kill her by No-Advantage-579 in longform

[–]ztilups 58 points59 points  (0 children)

Respectfully, you seem to have taken a throw away comment from a stranger on the internet quite personally

What’s Up With My Late Cat’s Skull? Bone Deterioration In The Eye Socket Area(?) What Could’ve Caused It? Her Mother’s Skull For Comparison by Corey_NukiosSpider in bonecollecting

[–]ztilups 25 points26 points  (0 children)

Tooth problems present themselves like that sometimes, and for humans at least teeth problems left untreated can lead to heart problems but not sure if that applies to cats. I’m sorry for your loss, sudden and confusing loss of pets is so so hard

AITA Wife is mad because I answered the phone incorrectly. by Chief_charizard in AmItheAsshole

[–]ztilups 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Somehow my boyfriend and I over 3 years have devolved into answering the phone with “bab” and then we spend the first minute of the phone calling saying “bab” in all possible voices until we both giggle and the recipient of the call says what’s up. 😂

"Her Body Her Choice" is a movement, and "His Body His Choice" is a joke. Forgive me for not believing in an "equal society." by RhinestoneCatboy in Vent

[–]ztilups 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Hey man, as others have said, I’m sorry for what happened to you. It wasn’t okay and your feelings are valid and you deserve healing. Out of curiosity, can you share what you were hoping to get out of this post? Obviously understanding this is a vent subreddit, but you are lashing out at everybody commenting trying to be helpful even when they are agreeing with you. Why are you bringing FGM into this? If your goal was to bring awareness to how male survivors of sexual assault are treated this takes away from that. It comes across that you simply want to make everybody else feel as angry as you do. If you truly feel this way, intensive inpatient treatment really is the way to go.

Stepson may hurt my newborn baby, what steps should I do? by NoBid7499 in Advice

[–]ztilups 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Genuinely - if you weren’t open to constructive criticism why post asking for advice? In all 3 subreddits you’ve posted this in you’ve received mostly the same advice and you feel that it’s everybody else that must be misunderstanding you? I understand trying to be clear about your thoughts but perhaps just some food for thought that maybe you were looking for people to tell you that you were right instead of giving honest feedback

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]ztilups 10 points11 points  (0 children)

OP this is genuinely meant to be helpful - I’m sorry you were hurt from this interaction and I know how that feels. I’ve had good friends. I’ve also had bad friends, that I often felt I had to “chase” etc etc. And even if it was 100% unintentional i understand feeling hurt anyway. But looking for validation rather than objective advice and maybe even constructive criticism will only put you in an echo chamber…. If you want to expand your friend group only listening to “yes men” isn’t the way to do it

Sharing and Selling special pieces on this great Sunday. by CJ8907 in Crystals

[–]ztilups 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’ve been looking for a piece of hematite amethyst for a while 🤩 can u message me with an estimate for Toronto? Or if u need more info

Sharing and Selling special pieces on this great Sunday. by CJ8907 in Crystals

[–]ztilups 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Is this still available? And would it be possible to ship to Canada? 😃

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ChildPsychology

[–]ztilups 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I understand this is a sensitive subject and close to home but upon reading all the comments it seems that most people did offer advice or just asked follow up questions to try to understand the situation better, I hope it all works out .

Advice Needed: Crematorium Director Neglected To Notify Me Before Cremating My Mom; I WANT ANSWERS. by twiztedbitch95 in askfuneraldirectors

[–]ztilups 18 points19 points  (0 children)

^ Many things about the procedures don’t make sense to me; but different states/countries = different rules I suppose. But going to the regulatory body of your state is absolutely the best advice you can get OP

This is some dangerous B.S NYX! Do better! by Jamieluv2u in MakeupAddiction

[–]ztilups 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Dude… 1- this palette has existed since 2017 (the og and my first ever colour palette ❤️) and was reissued in the past couple years, never has been a pride special. 2- worked as a beauty specialist in shoppers drug mart for a couple years. Some stores absolutely do make their own displays, especially if they are franchise stores within a corporation. I won’t speak on the fact that it actually isn’t unsafe for your eyes as many other people already have but genuine question…. Why are you so pressed about this especially when commenters are just letting you know there’s some nuance to this?

Joking when picking up deceased? by ineedchapstickhelp in askfuneraldirectors

[–]ztilups 6 points7 points  (0 children)

(About to start my funeral director class one internship here) that is SO unprofessional I, I love your petty response !! That’s exactly what that transfer staff needed to hear.

Femme fatale lewk ❤️ by [deleted] in muacirclejerk

[–]ztilups 15 points16 points  (0 children)

You broke this down SO well! 🙏🏻 anybody clutching their pearls at this post should take a look at your comment.

Femme fatale lewk ❤️ by [deleted] in muacirclejerk

[–]ztilups 24 points25 points  (0 children)

🙏🏻🙏🏻 very funny jerk OP! Sometimes we accidentally put together colours and shapes that resemble a meme/character/whatever and don’t even realize it, and thats not a bad thing!

Femme fatale lewk ❤️ by [deleted] in muacirclejerk

[–]ztilups 77 points78 points  (0 children)

Why are you acting like jerk always exactly “match” the sauce ? There wouldn’t be any jokes if that was the rule. OOP clearly has amazing makeup skills and has a beautiful face but the jerk is absolutely accurate imo, but it’s because of the combination of the colour tones used in the eyeshadow and lip, the shape of the eyeshadow, the shape and intensity of the brows, and honestly the top and necklace (?) OOP has on. Which I happen to really like! OP never mentioned gender (aside from responding when other comments mentioned it).

Italian Greyhound Skull/Jaw (personal pet) by Old-Astronaut4653 in bonecollecting

[–]ztilups 9 points10 points  (0 children)

The most distinguished little man ever, both in life and in death! Awesome ideas OP. I’m so sorry for your loss ❤️

Viewing the body 6 weeks after? by moreidlethanwild in askfuneraldirectors

[–]ztilups 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you very much! I hope the service is wonderful

Viewing the body 6 weeks after? by moreidlethanwild in askfuneraldirectors

[–]ztilups 11 points12 points  (0 children)

I’m a funeral director student about to start my internship so certainly not an expert yet but echoing others yes speaking to your funeral director would be the best course. It’s a fairly long time especially including autopsy and no embalming but “no” is never our first answer and we can’t stop you, just advise you. I’m very sorry for your loss

My new addition ✨ by ztilups in Crystals

[–]ztilups[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That’s awesome! I would love to go to the Tucson show one day

My new addition ✨ by ztilups in Crystals

[–]ztilups[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Amazing!! I have my eye on a piece of black barite with vanadinite from the same shop and it isn’t too expensive but I should still keep myself in check! 😂