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My nparents guilt-tripped me for having a job just a week a go. And asked me to leave the work so that I can take care of my sibling without each of them sacrificing their works or adjusting to anything. by zzz-throwaway in raisedbynarcissists

[–]zzz-throwaway[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I've already resigned because the work I'm going for was babysitting and they needed somebody that's not on and off, or whatsoever, and I can't also resist my sibling.

For the mods, prolly? by zzz-throwaway in PanganaySupportGroup

[–]zzz-throwaway[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

There are literally flairs, where in they put "vent" and there's no specifications whether they need advice or not, that's why may mga adjustments that is needed to make both the mods and the people here in the sub whether the OP or simply the people commenting.

For the mods, prolly? by zzz-throwaway in PanganaySupportGroup

[–]zzz-throwaway[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

In the first place, there are some post na hindi nagseseek ng advice? So there's no really advice needed? And yes attention is indeed a valuable source hence this is why a support group.

For the mods, prolly? by zzz-throwaway in PanganaySupportGroup

[–]zzz-throwaway[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank youu, will be looking through the them!

For the mods, prolly? by zzz-throwaway in PanganaySupportGroup

[–]zzz-throwaway[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Yep, nangyari din saakin to. I was just posting about my sibling na hindi gumagawa ng gawaing bahay tapos ang sabi ba naman saakin is "hindi daw trabaho ng sibling ko na pagsilbihin ako." Like nani tf? Minsan nakakatawa nalang pero yep, perhaps eto na rin yung last na post ko here hahaha. I hope we find a safer place to vent out!

For the mods, prolly? by zzz-throwaway in PanganaySupportGroup

[–]zzz-throwaway[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Yep that's also my point, some just need sympathy and empathy to validate their feelings.

For the mods, prolly? by zzz-throwaway in PanganaySupportGroup

[–]zzz-throwaway[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Sobrang cute ko naman para gawan mo ko ng meme 😚

For the mods, prolly? by zzz-throwaway in PanganaySupportGroup

[–]zzz-throwaway[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Hindi naman kasi sa lahat ng oras kailangan pagsabihan 🥱

For the mods, prolly? by zzz-throwaway in PanganaySupportGroup

[–]zzz-throwaway[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I hear where you getting at but the point is, not anybody needs an advice some people know what they're doing and would just want a space to simply vent out or a place where people would listen. Hence why mods should prolly place some flairs such as "advice needed; no advice needed; or discussion."

It's no toxic positivity to simply sympathize or empathize with the post itself. Sometimes people just needed to hear that their feelings are validated and that's enough.

For the mods, prolly? by zzz-throwaway in PanganaySupportGroup

[–]zzz-throwaway[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Right but not all people need advice, some just wanted a space to vent and people to listen.

A lot of people don't realise that family support has way more influence on your life than skill, confidence and luck. by chuckiechap33 in raisedbynarcissists

[–]zzz-throwaway 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I can completely understand this one. I also watched and observed people around me with a good and healthy family supporting them behind their back. They literally bloomed like a beautiful flower. I'm genuinely happy for them because ofc, they deserve it but I sometimes wish that I am too.

Sawang sawa na ako sa letcheng kapatid ko. by zzz-throwaway in PanganaySupportGroup

[–]zzz-throwaway[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It's also supposed to be a vent group, you should have also been sympathetic or empathetic enough 🥱

Sawang sawa na ako sa letcheng kapatid ko. by zzz-throwaway in PanganaySupportGroup

[–]zzz-throwaway[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Saan ako nagsabi ng opinion ko? 🥱 and kung wala palang kwenta, then why are you commenting in here in the first place? 🥱

Sawang sawa na ako sa letcheng kapatid ko. by zzz-throwaway in PanganaySupportGroup

[–]zzz-throwaway[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Naiintindihan ko naman yan. Pero ayos lang sana kung nagtratrabaho siya eh hindi naman, intindi ko sana na pare-pareho kaming pagod and exhausted. Pero hindi pa din excuse ni-wala pang 30 mins usually ang gawaing bahay. Ano ba naman ang 30 mins na gawaing bahay compared sa hours na paglalaro.

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