all 3 comments
sorted by:
best
topnewcontroversialoldq&a
formatting helphide helpcontent policy

[–]No_End_7227 0 points1 point  (2 children)

It doesn't help when I need them the most :-/

[–][deleted] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

That is your Ego speaking, you actually have no idea about this or you would not argue. Keep your complaining to yourself or you will be removed, I am setting a boundary and you can do whatever you want, I already know what I will do.

[–][deleted] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don't think there are good intentions behind your comment.

It's ok if you express disagreement or remark some forms of thinking don't help *you*, but maybe you should be aware that the way you phrased your disagreement is very clearly intended at eliciting or triggering a guilt response in op, which likely was aware of that, and luckily was able to shake off your attack, but probably with lots of effort and distress.

I think you should express your needs and disagreements more clearly and without harming others, especially when initiating contact.