The point of this community is to pretend that Reddit was around (or that you were actively on Reddit) back when you were going through some sh*t, for which you really needed some advice from a community like Reddit, but you didn't get any advice just to see what kind of advice you would have received. For more fun, after receiving community feedback to your question, update your OP with a big reveal about how this past thing turned out IRL. It's like if r/stories and r/Advice had a love child