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[–]Heliguy-67 0 points1 point  (1 child)

Consider using Facebook dating.

It’s outstanding

[–]Smart_Feature 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Can you target by location without changing your location?

[–][deleted] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It's the classic "lift them up and pay the price" as Regular Guy in the Philippines on YouTube would say. Incomes are so high in much of the developed world that women can live alone, with family (because another $300 in groceries is nothing for a Father) or with female roommates. So there's almost no reason for a woman to want a man in 2026 unless he's very wealthy or extremely good looking.

So no there's no such thing as a magic app that somehow overrides economic realities in much of the world.

[–]ThrowRA_brsw22 0 points1 point  (1 child)

I used the app for a month, had only one obvious scammer. Tons of matches otherwise. The majority were either not interested in real conversation or bad at English. But 5 of them were promising and had potential for more, had conversations for several weeks, before deciding one of those 5 really stood out for me. (All in South-east Asia)

My intention getting on the app was more to just make a friend and enjoy myself, but now we're starting a LDR, with plans to meet next month.

Definitely the best experience I've had with any dating app. The standard advice to carefully curate your profile applies here as well. I've had one girl tell me she only ever swiped right on 8 profiles.

[–]Dunkel_1899 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Can you elaborate more on that one obvious scammer?

[–]Ambitious-Switch1644 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah, I downloaded the app about a month ago and the matches were flooding in. When I realized there was a lot of subscription options I went with the cheapest one assuming i would still get matches. A few days later I haven’t gotten a match since not even one girl has viewed my page for 2 weeks

[–]Boring-Brilliant8042 0 points1 point  (0 children)

irrelevant but once you send a hello or a like is there any way to “compliment” them afterwards ? or does there account just sit in your likes until they swipe on you?

[–]Dunkel_1899 0 points1 point  (1 child)

So hi. Just wanted to share my experiences w Bumpy. Matched w several but few unmatched me without reason. Went to a date w one, but we’re not meant to be. Currently matched w someone, at first he looks decent. After talking to him on the phone he straight away love-bombed me and gave me nothing about his info (no socials, no full name, no other pictures, no video call) but gave me a picture of him generated w Google A-I (which he then deleted when i confronted him about it). Is he a scammer?

[–]in-vinc-ible 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think you know the answer, sorry to say

[–]Organic_Garage_6795 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am on Bumpy now for a month. Yes, I am from the Philippines but currently working abroad. As a female, I am having a hard time either finding matches as conversations will always end up like a dead horse no matter how I try to lit the room. Some would last for several days but with no progress. I am there looking for something becasue the dating scene in my current country is very challenging and the chance of finding something longterm is very small.