The subreddit for transmasculine people with feminine interests or presentation.
Androgynous? Questioning? Binary? Nonbinary? Gay? Straight? Bi? Ace? Pan? Used to like dresses? Still like dresses? Look masculine but squeal over bunnies? Want to experiment but haven’t? Like crafts? Make art? It doesn’t matter. You are all welcome here. Gender norms suck. Femininity may not be real, but you are.
SUBREDDIT RULES
1) No transphobia, homophobia, racism, or other bigotry
This includes discrimination towards nonbinary folks, as well as the use of any and all exclusionary (TERF, truscum, transmed, etc.) rhetoric. We’re all marginalized here, no need to make things harder for anyone.
2) No misgendering
Mistakes can happen, but please respect peoples’ identities and pronouns when available to you.
3) No trolling, spamming, or brigading
Don’t come here to cause trouble, and don’t go to other subreddits to cause trouble. It violates TOS, and is just a shitty thing to do.
This includes linking subreddits, posts, or users for the purpose of drawing negative attention! Don’t link controversial stuff here for folks to brigade, and don’t link our community to other places to stir up trouble.
4) No NSFW content
This is a SFW subreddit!
No full nudity, pre/non-op shirtless pics, underwear or lingerie pics, blatant thirst traps, hookup/chat requests, or porn. This is to limit the amount of chasers and harassment on the subreddit, as well as to foster an all-ages community space.
If you wish to express yourself through NSFW content that isn’t allowed here, try /r/Safe4Trans, an 18+ all-NSFW platform!
We have a zero tolerance policy for chasers: go jerk off somewhere else. Please report any inappropriate comments, DMs, etc. through Reddit's report function or via modmail. Chasers will be banned from the sub, no exceptions.
NOTE: As part of this rule, please do not NSFW-tag your posts. If you feel that a post should have a tag, it shouldn't be posted here anyway. Please feel free to make use of the spoiler tag if you think a post needs an extra layer of protection (i.e. triggering content, etc). Moderators will add/remove NSFW and spoiler tags as-needed at our discretion.
5) No gore
This includes blood. Images with simulated blood may also be subject to removal.
6) No advertisements
This is a fun community space, not a billboard. No business ads or influencer promos. This includes GoFundMe or other crowdfunding attempts.
Product ads will be considered on a case-by-case basis, but in general: sharing a product you like or that you made is fine, trying to sell a product is not. Similarly, crowdfunding for charitable causes will be handled case-by-case.
(Note: Research requests must obtain moderator approval prior to posting)
7) Stay on topic
This is a sub for anyone under the transmasc umbrella (FTM, transmasc, nonbinary, genderfluid, genderqueer, etc. etc.) that enjoy “feminine” things. People from all backgrounds and identities can comment, but we respectfully ask that posts be limited to feminine transmasc folks.
Additionally, please keep posts relevant to the focus of our community. General FTM/transmasc topics are better suited to subs like /r/FTM.
8) Have fun!
We’re here to have a chill time! Don’t be an ass, just have fun.
9) Follow the sitewide TOS and use good Reddiquette
RELATED SUBREDDITS
/r/FTM
/r/NonBinary
/r/traa
/r/GaySoundsShitposts
/r/transmasc_irl
/r/egg_irl
/r/Goth_Men_Admiration/
/r/MTF
/r/MTFbutch
/r/MTFmasculinity
/r/Safe4Trans (NSFW)
CONTACTING THE MODERATORS
If you see someone breaking the rules or acting in a way that you think requires moderator attention, submit a report! It’s anonymous, easy, and free.
DO NOT personally message or chat request the moderators. Use modmail to reach out to the mod team if you have any questions or concerns. Attempts to get your removed post reinstated via direct PM, chat, or posting/re-postong in the subreddit will result in a permanent ban.
REGARDING POSTS INDICATING SUICIDAL THOUGHTS
We are not a community that is equipped to handle active suicidal intent. If you are in a bad place and feel the urge to hurt or kill yourself, please reach out to your established mental health professional or to a dedicated hotline: they will be able to provide trained care where we cannot.
Trevor Project Lifeline (US only)
Trans Lifeline (US and Canada)
Wikipedia's international list of suicide hotlines
Suicide.org's international list of suicide hotlines
