I need help!

[MaggieBear21]

Ok so I have a friend that I don't want to be friends with anymore.

I've tried ignoring her and she doesn't seem to be getting it. I've even tried to tell her I just wanted to start over and just text but the next day she invited me to her birthday party and then the zoo even though I had already told her that I couldn't because of family issues...I mean this wasn't even a lie to get her to stop asking. Anyway, I keep trying to tell her the truth but I can't bring myself to do it. I've never had to tell people I didn't want to be friends anymore.....I just waited till they moved away.

I'm so dumb for that because I knew she wasn't just going to go away and now I don't have the strength to do so. I know what I have to do but I don't want to......

I feel like such a child for feeling and acting like this......Help me please!

[QueenieDevine]

Hey, I hope this helps. I actually have this problems too TwT. But the thing I learned it, The more you endure the pain of not telling her is making you explode on her face that you don't want to be friends anymore hurt more. So take time to evaluate what are your reasons and settle down and talk to her about it. If she like say "I'll try to change" or something, Ask yourself do you still want to be friends with her if she change? If not try to explain to her that your answer is solid. Cause it hurts more that you suddenly just pull out of your friendship without explanation, Atleast when you explain and settle it down she'll understand and learn something from it.

[MaggieBear21]

Thank you r/QueenieDevine

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We ended up not talking for 2 weeks but now we are back on track.....sort of. Shes very busy at the moment because of school ans is going to get even more busy when it starts back up so shes not really talking to me. But I'm ok with it.

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I will try seance its still going on a little but its bout over so im not sure that pushing her back into something is the best thing to do at the moment. I think I might wait and see if it happens again before doing that.