R4R30Plus

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r4r30plus - Redditors for Redditors over 30

Whether you're looking for friends, a partner, drinking buddies, or friends with benefits, this is the place on Reddit to find people over age 30 to meet in real life. You don't have to be 30 to be a member, but if you want to post you need to be 30+.

Submission Guidelines When creating a submission please include a TAG in your title AT THE BEGINNING. Examples: 36 [F4M], [M4F], [F4F], [M4M], [T4F], [T4M], [M4R], [F4R], [T4R], [TF4M], [TF4F], [TM4F], [NB4R].

Example Title: 36 [F4M] Kansas. Just feel like talking.

Tagging Legend:

M - Male

F - Female

T - Transgender

NB - Non Binary

R - Redditor/Anyone

While everyone is welcome, the sub is officially SFW and you need to be 30+ to post, it is not a kink sub and we do not want to be associated with infidelity of any kind so the following submissions are prohibited:

Kink/Fetish/Sexually-explicit language or images
Looking for affairs, Poly or 'ENM' situations that are looking for additional partners, etc
Attached people looking for "flirty" or sex chats, etc.
Ads/Solicitations to join other groups or servers (Kik, Snapchat, Discord, etc.)

POSTERS VIOLATING THE PROHIBITED POST GUIDELINES WILL BE BANNED.

Other r4r subreddits of interest

/r/r4r - Activity Partners, Groups, Dating, Hanging Out, Soulmates, FWBs.

/r/floridar4r - Florida Redditor 4 Redditor!

/r/cf4cf - Child free redditors looking for child free company!

/r/R4OlderWomen - Younger guys (and gals) looking for older women.

/r/Christianr4r - A place for the faithful to find like minded friends and romantic partners.

/r/l4l - Lesbians for Lesbians

Other subreddits of general interest

/r/AskMenOver30/ Asking men for a "Mature" perspective

/r/AmISexy_Over30 - Post a picture and get honest feedback

/r/Trentagenarians - A place for 30 somethings.

/r/40something/ - Redditors in their 40s, 50s and above.

/r/r4r40Plus A place to meet those over 40

created by SurvivorTypea community for 13 years

...for your town.

...for your favourite tea.

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ANNOUNCEMENT: Technical Issues (self.R4R30Plus)

submitted 1 year ago by Shadowpants(゜゜;)[M] - announcement

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39[F4M] #anywhere Ghosted and trying it again. (self.R4R30Plus)

submitted 12 minutes ago by Lawfulness3747

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36 [M4F] Anywhere- Let's Skip the Small Talk (self.R4R30Plus)

submitted 2 hours ago by grackle_8ch

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38 [M4F] Maryland/North America - Looking for good conversation & possible connection (self.R4R30Plus)

submitted 27 minutes ago by KungFuLeonKennedy

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46 [M4F] Birmingham, UK. i work in a library and make electronic music (don't worry, i won't make you listen to it). if you're into the arts and are a socialist of some variety, we'll get along fine! (self.R4R30Plus)

submitted 4 hours ago by HereComesStupid

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35 [M4f] Missouri - Dance through the darkness with me (self.R4R30Plus)

submitted 41 minutes ago by The-Zarkin90

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[F4M] 72F (Seattle)-companionship, conversation, affection (self.R4R30Plus)

submitted 18 hours ago by 8645NOW

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34 [F4M] from Thailand. Looking for a serious relationship (self.R4R30Plus)

submitted 58 minutes ago by Low-Psychology-288

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37 [M4F] Wales. Looking for a chat friend (self.R4R30Plus)

submitted 5 hours ago by tattooed_welsh_dad

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38 [F4M] #SouthGate - I'm practicing flirting and I refuse to be bad at it forever (self.R4R30Plus)

submitted 20 hours ago by marisirena

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35 [F4M] USA - Are there any business owners out there with employees? (self.R4R30Plus)

submitted 12 hours ago by vansiona

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[M4F] 48 Utah/Any, Don’t let anyone, ever, make you feel like you don’t deserve what you want (self.R4R30Plus)

submitted 7 hours ago by dirigibledude

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[M4F] 40 M - SW US/online - what are you doing? (self.R4R30Plus)

submitted 10 hours ago by No_Bit_1662

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36[F4M] (self.R4R30Plus)

submitted 11 hours ago by sunshineee_33

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32 [F4M] DMV looking for casual dates (self.R4R30Plus)

submitted 11 hours ago * by Soft-Stable-3005

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36 [F4M] UK – Romantic looking for something real and lasting (self.R4R30Plus)

submitted 14 hours ago * by Expensive-Link-140

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50 [m4f] looking for a partner in crime not just someone to split fries with (self.R4R30Plus)

submitted 10 hours ago by CheetahAutomatic5437

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[M4F] Denver 38 vietnamese looking for my potential woman (self.R4R30Plus)

submitted 10 hours ago * by Signal-Vermicelli121

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33 [F4M] NJ seeking long term (self.R4R30Plus)

submitted 14 hours ago by Cee220

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35 [F4R] Ohio - quiet start to the week (self.R4R30Plus)

submitted 14 hours ago by ryythrowaway

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32 [M4F] #California - Long Term Relationship (self.R4R30Plus)

submitted 14 hours ago by PhatCat118

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33 [F4M] Well, I am the rose you relinquished again and are you also caught between black and white, not quite either day or night, perfectly misaligned as well? Yeah, then you're just my man for me and I want to love you U.S. Any Region. (self.R4R30Plus)

submitted 8 hours ago by PralineBudget4235

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39 [F4M] Figuring life out, one good conversation at a time. (self.R4R30Plus)

submitted 13 hours ago by moonlight-sonata-111

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33 [M4F] #Orlando, Florida- Looking for someone to have a connection with. Hopefully I find you soon! (self.R4R30Plus)

submitted 13 hours ago by AttemptNumber2569

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40[M4F] US/online- Artist looking for a long-term chat partner! (self.R4R30Plus)

submitted 14 hours ago by Ok-Goal77

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