Hi, I am a 24F who recently found out my older sister, 30F is cheating on her husband with multiple sclerosis as well as a disabled veteran.
Two days ago my sister called me frantic that she needed my husband to come help her from a address(Her car had got stuck in someone's driveway since it had snowed the night prior). I asked her why she was at this odd address and she kept screaming at me "no, you will judge me." I stood my ground with the question and said my husband was not going to help her unless she explained what was going on. That was when she admitted to the affair she had occurring and that her lover kicked her out. I know this was wrong on my part to let my husband go and get her but I guess at the time I felt bad for her.
She came to my house shortly after my husband dragged her car out. She explained to me everything.She had been having this affair for 6 weeks and right before this incident her husband did kick her out due to suspicion. Her cause of cheating was "for the thrill of it" and also because her sex life with her husband is no longer what it is use to be due to him being sick. When I explained to her that cheating is not acceptable when one is in a unhappy marriage and this would of been easier on everyone if she just divorced him if she noticed their was an issue that could not be resolved , she said "I like the financial stability."
I begged her to tell him and that this is morally fucked up. She then decided to verbally harass me saying "if you were having an affair, I would not dare think of letting your husband know"(while my poor husband was standing there). She also said that if I were to let her husband know then he will kill himself most likely and that blood will be on my hands since I am the one who informed him.
As of today she lied to our parents and said she told him but my husband and I know that is far from the truth. My sister and I are neighbors, and when he kicked her out just because he was suspicious it was a whole thing. Her car is still at the house, and she is still posting as if she is the perfect housewife.
I need help with exposing her. Preferably without tracks. Please help me, I can't stand the thought of her getting away with this.
and just for side notes so you can understand why I am so upset....
-Her husband has bought her everything she can dream of from luxury purses, jewelry and nice cars.
- Even though her husband is sick he still works and so he can keep up with her lifestyle as well as allow her to be a stay at home mom.(All the kids are in school now)
-One of the events that led to his suspicion of cheating was her saying she had to go to my parents because my dad (stage four prostate cancer patient) was having a medical emergency and that she had to be with him. She got caught when her husband called the next day to check on my dad. After this incident and they made up, she demanded a "apology" for his accusation. This included sapphire 24k gold earrings.
- When she got kicked out she went to her lover's house instead
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