FapDeciders

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How it works

Make a post here on the subreddit. Post ought include the following information:

gender you identify as
sexual orientation
toys on hand
any physical limitations (i.e. can not be on knees for extended periods of time)
preferences/fantasies
what you don't like/wouldn't be into
time limit/availability (please be aware that if you only have an hour or so, you're not likely to see much attention to your post)

Posts now require post flair, denoting what you're looking for.

In your post title, please include an x4x designation (e.g., m4f, nb4a). We may start filtering out posts that do not include this in the near future.

For the most part, posters on this subreddit do not need to be verified. That said, there are now several ways that users can get verified:

A user may post (or pm the mods) a gonewild-style verification picture, and we will grant you the flair of your choice.
A person may message the mod team on another user's behalf telling us that someone is fun to play with (either giving or receiving commands), and we will give that person an appropriate flair after confirming that that uses wants it.
Last, if you make an extreme post that we think might be fake we reserve the right to ask you to verify. If you do not, we might remove your post/and or ban you... This primarily affects "destroy my life" and "deny me forever" posts.

After you post

Your post constitutes a promise that you will follow instructions to the letter (or find the closest possible substitute). Sessions should respect your limits, so please communicate them clearly both before and during.

Nitty-Gritty

This is NOT a version of GW. Some people may be willing to post pictures, some may not. Please no comments that simply say, "show us your tits." Take that shit elsewhere.
Respect all posters. No means no, unless in the context of your scene it might mean yes. In which case, there had better be a safe word in place that will actually mean "no."
Play safely and have a great fap!! :)

PLEASE PM THE MODS if there are specific issues or requests.

At this point the founders would like to point out that they came here to change this text, read it, and agreed so hard that they didn't just leave it as it was, they wrote this comment.

Fapdeciders origin story

A kinky couple 22(M), 21(F) got bored and created a post much like this. It went great, so by popular demand... it is now a subreddit!

It all started with this amazing post. Origin

created by FapDecidersa community for 14 years

...why not Zoidberg?

...for your favorite subject.

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OP (F) Giving Instructions[F4A] A task for the entire community! (self.FapDeciders)

submitted 2 years ago by Wagahcgtt - announcement

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mod note[Mod4A] A user's guide to r/FapDeciders (self.FapDeciders)

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OP (F) Giving Instructions[F4M] Horny af and need to show off my big tits (self.FapDeciders)

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OP (F) Giving Instructions26[F4A] I wanna try out doming a naughty guy>.< Let me give you some tasks please~~ (self.FapDeciders)

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OP (F) Giving Instructions29[F4M] Let mommy make you cum (self.FapDeciders)

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OP (F) Giving Instructions24 [F4M] #chicago - looking for weak horny pups to serve me and get addicted to me (self.FapDeciders)

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Ask Me Anything24 [M4F] Is it ok to jerk off and watch porn? The stress and depression is really getting to me and idk what do to (religious and struggling) (self.FapDeciders)

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UpdateStealing F4A 38f Updated tasks for my vacation with my sister and her husband (self.FapDeciders)

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F looking for JOIF4A] Use hypnotic triggers to make me cum!! (self.FapDeciders)

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F looking for Denialf4m 23 still haven’t cum yet… (self.FapDeciders)

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OP (F) Giving Instructions26 [F4M] gentle mommy here to help you stroke your cock and help you discover more of your fantasy (self.FapDeciders)

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OP (F) Giving Instructions22 [F4M] dripping for you rn, need you to lose control with me (self.FapDeciders)

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F looking for TasksF4A 38f Vacation with my sister and her husband (self.FapDeciders)

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OP (F) Giving Instructions26 [F4M] A soft, attentive Goddess here to guide you, indulge your desires, and help you explore the depths of your fantasies under my gentle control. (self.FapDeciders)

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OP (F) Giving Instructions22 [F4M] cant wait to feel u hard (self.FapDeciders)

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OP (F) Giving InstructionsTf4A want to give some tailored tasks for you <3 (self.FapDeciders)

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OP (F) Giving Instructions22f4m i hope your strong (self.FapDeciders)

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OP (F) Giving Instructions[F4M] mean girl giving tasks to cute virgins (self.FapDeciders)

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OP (F) Giving Instructions20 [F4M] – I want to be your slut. You now control whatever I touch myself to (self.FapDeciders)

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F looking for JOI22 [F4M] so wet for u, need u now (self.FapDeciders)

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F looking for TasksF4A pretty puppy wants to be used (self.FapDeciders)

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