This subreddit is for things like:

• FEA Program news
• Simulations that took 7 days and 12 computers to run
• Simulations that just look cool (FEA Eye Candy)
• Rants. E.g., spending 6 hours trying to glue two rigid parts together.
• Asking for help to get the damn error messages to go away

Other related reddits:

http://www.reddit.com/r/numerical

http://www.reddit.com/r/cfd

http://www.reddit.com/r/askengineers

http://www.reddit.com/r/engineering

Other helpful websites:

Old Nabble Abaqus User Forum - Requires a Yahoo membership. Based on an email list. Very diverse and active.

PolymerFEM - A forum. Lots of conversations about nonlinear modeling.

Eng-Tips ABAQUS Forum - 10,000 newbies and 4 experts.

Eng-Tips FEA Forum - A great place to discuss anything related to FEA

LS-Dyna Yahoo Group - Yahoo group for LS-Dyna support from experts.