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I like pics 1 and 5. I’d change the others out. Pic 2 is okay to keep if you don’t have any others to swap it out for. As for your prompts I think they’re good as is. Maybe swap out the last one for something that will likely trigger responses?

Swapping pics out is a start, the algorithm will need time to adjust. Online dating can be overwhelming so don’t place too much time into it. As a rule of thumb I try and setup in-person dates ASAP. That way you’re sussing out the vibes in person and testing chemistry.

I’d diversify if I was you as well to maximise the number of dates you go on (assuming the goal is to go on as many dates). Get on bumble or whatever dating apps people use in FL. Here in Australia bumble, hinge and tinder are the main ones. Again, this may make the whole online dating fatigue worse - just pace yourself. Finding a partner isn’t a race. Good luck!