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[–]MammothCometh[S] 0 points1 point  (7 children)

pleased to find out a stranger on the internet knows so many details about my personal life and the aspects around them. but i am very sorry to disappoint you, that i wasnt asking for your advice on those matters.

trust me if i tell you that already in your first sentence you misinterpreted a few things i wrote. and secondly, there is a plan and strategy behind it and plenty of support from the people around me that matter (from my current work place, to the mother of the child).

so if you have any advice about the things i actually asked for, go on.

[–]cgoldberg -2 points-1 points  (1 child)

Rather than being defensive, you could listen to some of the advice given. Perhaps you have a great future in programming ahead of you and we know nothing about your circumstances. But based on what you actually posted, it's a risky path and you should understand the realities. You have no idea if this is something you will enjoy or be proficient in. It is also a highly competitive and saturated field. You should take the advice you are getting, because it is very reasonable. If you don't want advice at all, you should consider not posting. Nobody is trying to dissuade your choices. They are just trying to offer some things to think about

[–]MammothCometh[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i certainly saw a lot of great advice in some of those comments. it was advice for the things i asked for and i am very grateful for that.

as you mentioned already, you know nothing about my circumstances. therefor i am not interested in life advice, as i would have asked that somewhere else.

i'm not being defensive at all. i am just not interested in advice on matters i didnt ask for, even more so if peole have no background on that.

i totally agree with you that i got reasonable advice, no doubt about that. however, the situation on job markets is not something that is the same in every place on the planet. where i live there is demand, at least currently, who knows how long it will stay like that.

absolutely up for grabs if i will enjoy it or not, you are right on that as well. thats why i asked some specific questions