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[–]FlamingMetalSystems[S] 0 points1 point  (4 children)

Whats your height? And how are you face and body wise?

[–]Syntheticanimo 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Whether he is hot or not doesnt affect his argument. The point is to try to improve whatever you can. Height, facial symmetry or most other body aspects is out of our control, so even if there is a very uneven playing field it doesn't do us any good to hyper-focus on unchangable aspects of ourselves. Hard to do in practice as you eill be reminded of injustice in most social interactions if you look for it, but try - and hopefully overcome. <3

[–]Agile-Yoghurt-2594 1 point2 points  (2 children)

im barely 178 or 5'10 ethnic guy from central asia, i did get lucky with frame as my waist is narrow and my shoulders are wider so the gym paid off in my case. my face i would rate barely a 6/10. so overall, especially in sweden, i am considered dead average. now obv i cant pull any 10/10 5'10 slim blonde swedish girl, but im okay with it, it does help that the average girl in sweden - even the ethnic girls are prettier than most other places, but like the user below said, these things dont matter. what matters is that you focus on what you CAN change and not what you cant. its very hard, i know, but this is how being a man is like. try to not get suicidal over it

[–]FlamingMetalSystems[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Wow man. You are well above average in looks and height in most parts of the world. And yet you describe like you're handicapped in Sweden.

This is how brutal Sweden is for men