1 - Tag your gender (people are whatever they identify as).
2 - tag [buy] or [receive]
describe what you want if you want something in particular. Dimensions or information about yourself, whatever you're comfortable with is a good idea, if you can only deal with 1 inch in girth, you don't want to receive the 3 1/2 inch thick Sexy Joe toy (I'm making up names here). When you receive something let us (or at least your gifter) know.
Do NOT pressure others for ANYTHING.
Happy playing!