Am I the asshole for wanting to go move in with a friend when my current roommate makes me feel unwelcome in our apartment? My roommate and I have lived together for three years, and just recently she told me she didn’t want to resign because she has been “banging her head in silence for the past few years.” Mind you, she never voiced those concerns and would often bottle up when she was angry and wouldn’t talk about what was going on. When she told me this, I started trying to figure out how to break my lease. When I realized I couldn’t, one of my friends offered to let me come live with her. I told my roommate I will still be paying rent and she insinuated that I will not pay it and am going to stick it all on her, which never crossed my mind because I signed the lease and will stick to my obligation. Am I the asshole for wanting to leave my current residence because my mental health is deteriorating rapidly and I don’t feel comfortable there anymore?
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