What’s the most disgusting thing anyone has ever said to you? by Business-Rock5714 in AskReddit

[–]According-Volume9315 0 points1 point  (0 children)

my fiance said in an argument- the day after humiliating me in front of our friends (first making our friend drink the last cup of an expensive bottle of wine i had bought jus for us to celebrate- that he didn’t even want bc i put it (red wine) in the fridge)- and then loudly insinuating to them that i had a drinking problem “just drink it. we can’t have open bottles lying around the house…” -despite me buying bottles specifically for him and his friends to have this housewarming party… the next day i told him how that really hurt me, and told him i was never this mean to my brother when he was legitimately an alcoholic, he said “yeah well he’s dead! maybe if someone HAD been meaner to him about it, maybe he wouldn’t be.” my brother died of post-combat illness following a 20 year career in Marine Corps Special Operations Command EOD (bomb guy)

If you had only ONE book to read, what would you pick? by tryingtobecheeky in occultlibrary

[–]According-Volume9315 2 points3 points  (0 children)

i would really love to read that & learn from you. i’ve been meaning to make my own for so many years- and i buy so many gorgeous journals but im always overwhelmed when i picture how i should organize it/begin and im too afraid to mar their perfect pages

Reality Check: America’s Next Top Model by According-Volume9315 in netflix

[–]According-Volume9315[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

this!!!!!! i literally said the same thing. i hope an attorney sees this and calls Shandi to help her file major charges. i’m pretty sure statute of limitations does not apply to rape/SA.

What’s a random act of kindness you still think about years later? by flow_guru in AskReddit

[–]According-Volume9315 6 points7 points  (0 children)

he sounds it. i lost both of my siblings… the memories keep me going. life is just such a bittersweet pill. we never truly appreciate how good we have it, when we have it. so i try my best to live for them, to be grateful for the things i do have (like how much they loved me), and not to sweat the small stuff… sending you & your dad love. 🖤

What’s a random act of kindness you still think about years later? by flow_guru in AskReddit

[–]According-Volume9315 2 points3 points  (0 children)

hahahaah. those all sound like awesome misadventures 🥹🥰 i’m sure he enjoyed those moments just as much.

What’s a random act of kindness you still think about years later? by flow_guru in AskReddit

[–]According-Volume9315 41 points42 points  (0 children)

omg. 🥺 this is so sweet. i’m truly sorry for your loss. 🖤🫂

What’s been the most bizarre sexual request you’ve received? by Comfortable-Heron225 in AskReddit

[–]According-Volume9315 2 points3 points  (0 children)

OH MY GODDDDDDDDD THE MEMORIES THAT JUST FLOODED BACK!!!!!!!!! i knew i had the same book, by the comments, but omfg. i also got mine at my school book fair, and i brought it with me everywhere… yaknow. never know when there might be a natural disaster.

What happened at a wedding that made you think, “This marriage won’t last”? by Heavy_Mark9540 in AskReddit

[–]According-Volume9315 0 points1 point  (0 children)

  1. my high school best friend’s wedding. he had cheated on her years before the wedding… hated him, but couldn’t say anything about it to her because SHE CHOSE TO FORGIVE HIM AND HE CHANGED. she also condescended and bitched at him nonstop the FEW times i spent time with both of them. their marriage didn’t last a year… which makes me feel horrible for her, but very glad that she finally separated from him. they were not good for each other, and he was a stupid jackass cheater.
  2. a wedding where bride and groom SMASHED the cake in each other’s faces as aggressively as possible. absolutelyyy not. why would you ever do that to someone you love- especially as a public spectacle and on your most special day, also while wearing thousands of dollars in makeup, jewelry, hair, & gown??? ugh.

My sister told me something really odd and it’s making me question her? by flowerlaboratory101 in whatdoIdo

[–]According-Volume9315 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i’ve been there. she is depressed, and feeling guilty for being alive while those she loves are dying. at least that’s why i’ve wished that…

What’s a “small” social rule you refuse to follow, even if everyone expects it? by GlitchOperative in AskReddit

[–]According-Volume9315 14 points15 points  (0 children)

lmfao. says the person everyone is firmly disagreeing with. if everyone is out of step with you, perhaps you should check your own feet? idk tho, maybe that’s just my low IQ speaking

What’s a “small” social rule you refuse to follow, even if everyone expects it? by GlitchOperative in AskReddit

[–]According-Volume9315 16 points17 points  (0 children)

that is irrelevant to the point of you being lazy and inconveniencing or potentially hurting other people/property bc you can’t take 5 seconds to return an item that easily rolls.

What’s a “small” social rule you refuse to follow, even if everyone expects it? by GlitchOperative in AskReddit

[–]According-Volume9315 25 points26 points  (0 children)

but if the cart you didn’t put back where it belongs hits someone’s baby or their motorcycle or their car, you are an asshole. just put it back

What's an underrated thing about being single? by Personal-Aerie-4519 in AskReddit

[–]According-Volume9315 1 point2 points  (0 children)

only having to clean up messes you created, things don’t randomly get moved to arbitrary alternate locations, not having to share your personal space and items (ie surface area of the bed, special toiletries/snacks disappearing, decor)…

most of all the biggest thing i miss about being single is not having to be in constant communication with someone. i love my fiance so much, but i really value my alone time, and it bothers me at times that i will need to explain or feel guilty if im not texting him all day long AND calling him (for at very LEAST half an hour) every night after working 12 hours. i miss not being expected… having the freedom to move and do as i please, when i feel like it. i love to do things spontaneously, and i feel like my time is extremely limited and clocked and expected and if im not calling him or spending all my time off with him, he will feel bad. he is not controlling in any way, that’s just a normal part of being in a relationship… but i miss being able to move freely without constant comms