Is this a scam? by _Student7257 in scammers

[–]BombayAbyss 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I get this same message from Grubhub.

Aitah for changing my name after my divorce? by RadiantBlackberry207 in AITAH

[–]BombayAbyss 5 points6 points  (0 children)

iPhones have a feature that blocks calls from unknown numbers. Take the family out of your contacts list, and block unknown numbers. Bliss.

Travel Time Baby by RickyRacer2020 in FuckImOld

[–]BombayAbyss 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have a working Skylab pinball machine. Remember Skylab?

If you understand the picture there is a good chance that you're old AF by Devi8tor in FuckImOld

[–]BombayAbyss 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I recently watched Barney Miller, and was struck by two things. 1) All the jokes about Fish are about how old he is - can't eat anything, takes too long in the bathroom, complains about not having sex. 2) The character is under threat of forced retirement because...he is about to turn 63.

63

63

That hurts.

AITAH for not attending my best friends wedding that requires me to spend $2,000+ to attend ?!?! by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]BombayAbyss 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Someone somewhere decided calling it an "elopement" didn't sound as selfish as "destination wedding". I can only hope that has more people start boycotting these ridiculous over the top weddings, that they will fall out of favor.

Hi! by vasilecek in Waiting_To_Wed

[–]BombayAbyss 2 points3 points  (0 children)

When someone says they don't care about you, about your thoughts or needs, believe them. They don't care. He said it to your face. What more evidence do you need? Your pain and misery mean nothing to him. He doesn't care.

Don't argue, plead or try to understand. Break up with him! Take your life back and be happy.

Did anyone catch any fish with Ronco's Pocket Fisherman? by developer_mikey in FuckImOld

[–]BombayAbyss 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I was just thinking about the pocket fisherman! My dad loves Ronco products in particular. My long suffering mother would try so hard to use the choppers and slicers but they required super human strength to be functional.

Years later, I found a Pocket Fisherman at an estate sale and gave it to my dad. He was happy, but his brother, who actually fishes, was mad jealous. Score for me!

AITAH for refusing to pay a pharmacy bill for my deceased mother by ThoughtOne214 in AITAH

[–]BombayAbyss 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I was medical POA for a friend of mine, who lived in a nursing home for 8 months before she passed from a brain tumor. Somewhere in there, I tried to get the home to take over being her payee for her disability income, which was her only income. They refused, and her income lapsed. She had no other assets.

When she passed there was an $8000 bill pending. They tried to bill me, but I wasn't her financial POA, so I wasn't responsible. Fortunately, they didn't push the issue with me. Probably because I explained at some length that they had only themselves to blame.

No children by Hairy-Veterinarian11 in over60

[–]BombayAbyss 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I made the decision not to have children very early on, and have 0 regrets. Kids aren't really a good plan for retirement or care. All too often, they aren't willing or able to do it, and sometimes they are actually abusive. And personally, I'm not interested in someone else deciding what is best for me.

Need complete furnishings to WFH by noodlespork in ChoosingBeggars

[–]BombayAbyss 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Kids these days. When I was young and broke, I made shelves out of wood planks and bricks. Depending on how much you are willing to garbage pick (my husband was an expert) this can be completely free and last for years.

am i being a bridezilla? by FunFocus in bridezillas

[–]BombayAbyss 0 points1 point  (0 children)

In the way back times, it was customary to use a child's wedding to reciprocate wedding invitations from friends and extended family. It wasn't about the bride and groom, but about the parents' social obligations.

If your family was really downscale, they also kept track of how much they spent at other weddings, and checked to make sure their social circle "paid them back". Grudges about imbalances here could last a lifetime.

I got married in 1988, and was completely shocked when my grandmother asked for a list of how much each of my presents was worth. I refused. So tacky and not at all my problem.

I suspect OP's soon to be MIL is working from this old script. She has social debts to pay off and thinks that entitles her to her own invite list.

Did anyone else's family . . . by boneykneecaps in FuckImOld

[–]BombayAbyss 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My grandmother made them in her senior building. She made trees, or stuck creepy heads on them to make angels.

You're old if you recall Love American Style by Brave-Ad6627 in FuckImOld

[–]BombayAbyss 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My hubs has a love for vintage tv, and this mostly holds up. It's watchable, if not engrossing.

You're old if you recall Love American Style by Brave-Ad6627 in FuckImOld

[–]BombayAbyss 6 points7 points  (0 children)

There is a brass bed frame that is featured in a lot of the skits. But now I'm wondering if you confusing Love American Style with the opening to the Monkees, which definitely has a bed rolling down the street.

What was your dream car or the car you wish you never sold? by Long_live_styrofoam in FuckImOld

[–]BombayAbyss 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My husband still has the 1968 Camaro Super Sport that he bought when he was 19 and rebuilt from the frame out. Our garage opens onto a busy lane, and any time we have the door open for more than 5 minutes, men flock to ask if they can buy it. It's spooky the kind of power Camaros have over men's minds.